Author 丨 Sauce Auntie
This is the 306th night that Aunt Sauce accompanies you
Cross-talk actor Guo Qilin has always been sunny and cheerful in front of the screen, as if carefree.
However, with the broadcast of a variety show, Guo Qilin rarely exposed a "little secret".
It turned out that when he was seven years old, he encountered a "pseudo-sexual assault".
Image source: the program "1068 Soul Examination", invaded and deleted
When everyone was surprised, Guo Qilin began to describe himself:
"When I went to the bathroom of the fast food restaurant, there stood a middle-aged uncle with a helmet. I went into the cubicle, took off my pants and was squatting down, but the uncle pushed the door open. He didn't mention his pants either, and began to stroke and instigate me to touch them. ”
At that time, Guo Qilin was so young that Guo Qilin, who was frightened, did not know what to do.
He did not dare to tell his parents, but blindly blamed himself in his heart:
This may be the punishment for not locking the door when you go to the toilet.
Today, even though Guo Qilin has grown up, this experience still makes Guo Qilin feel fear and anger.
After Jiang Sida listened to this experience, he told Guo Qilin categorically:
This is actually sexual assault, and it has already caused harm to you.
Guo Qilin explains:
I didn't cooperate with him at the time.
All the audience present showed a distressed look, but Guo Qilin smiled, as if to comfort everyone, he dared to face his own shadows and pain.
Guo Qilin said:
"I say this because I hope that people will not only protect the girls, but also be very important for boys."
Yes, sexual assault does not distinguish between men and women, you think sex education is too early, bad people will not think that your children are too small.
How much do boys really need sex education?
In the eyes of many parents, boys are misunderstood as "will not suffer losses".
However, there are data that:
On average, 8 men are sexually assaulted every hour, and 1 in 6 men have experienced some degree of molestation in their lifetime.
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A pair of twin brothers have molested several boys because of their pedophilia.
The 42-year-old Jin is a corporate janitor, and he also has a brother Jin lawyer.
In order to satisfy his personal sexual desires, Jin used playing mobile phones and computer games as bait to repeatedly molest boys under the age of 14 in the duty room.
There are also some boys who are tricked into going to their homes by Jin and providing them to his brother Jin's lawyer for indecency.
Teacher Pan Brought 3 underage male students to their homes.
Pan said:
"Not drinking is disrespecting the teacher."
The male students did not dare to resist, and as a result, they were drunk by Pan and sexually assaulted many times.
The same is the case of male child sexual assault, Chengdu teacher Liang Gang sexual assault class more than 20 male students have attracted much attention.
On April 29, 2020, a public account article exploded.
The 12 victims reported in real names that Liang Gang had sexually assaulted male students, and the number was as high as more than 20.
"In the summer of 2010, I was just a sophomore in high school and was 15 years old. He took me home for the night on the grounds of counting student achievements. In the middle of the night, I felt someone moving me in my sleep. That day, I had nowhere to run. ” "In the next two years, I saw a lot of people taken away from the school by him, and several of our dormitories were often absent from the dormitories."
This is the confession of the victim l of the Lianggang sexual assault case against the boy.
Without exception, the students he had violated had declined in grades, with low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression.
For a long time, they were trembling, isolated, and even unable to live normal lives for a while.
Because they are boys, they need to face a stronger sense of shame and helplessness than girls being sexually assaulted.
It wasn't until many years later, when they grew up, that they finally had the courage to stand up and speak out.
The movie "Mysterious Skin" tells the story of two boys who have been sexually assaulted, and their fate has taken a surprising turn.
One of the boys, Neil, faced with the pain of being sexually assaulted, chose to accept and rationalize himself, and he became a gay sex worker.
Later, he met guests with AIDS, and he also met guests with perverted needs.
Image source: The movie "Mysterious Skin", invaded and deleted
Brian, another boy who had been sexually assaulted, chose to lose his memory.
Because of the pain, he selectively forgot the fact that he had been sexually assaulted, and the psychological hint kept telling him that it was a dream.
As for the man who sexually assaulted him, Brian's memories portrayed him as a monster with thick lower limbs and hairy hair.
Boys are sexually assaulted more often than people think.
The psychological shadow they suffer needs to be paid attention to and explained.
Also, if your child is a boy, educate him about sex from an early age.
Adolescence is the time for a boy's sexual initiation, so be sure to teach him not to hurt others.
Please also tell him that his private parts cannot be peeked at by others at will, and under what circumstances, he should flee in time.
Finally, I hope that parents can tell their children:
You are an angel sent by God, and no matter what, the home will always be your backing.