There is a saying that truly beautiful women can transcend the age gap. Woman's beauty: in looks, in temperament; woman's cuteness: in love, in wisdom. Of these things, the only thing that a little girl really has an advantage in is her looks.
What can make a woman beautiful for a lifetime is in temperament, wisdom, and heart.
Yang Lan, the host of a Chinese TELEVISION program, is an intellectual, dignified and elegant female figure in the eyes of the public. At the age of 53, she still maintains meticulous refinement, full of wisdom and elegant conversation. In an interview, Yang Lan told her about her upbringing, the young she gave up her job as a CCTV host and chose to study abroad, and everyone felt that she should not give up this very good career. And the reason for her choice is that she does not want to eat youth food, she hopes that she has social value and career value and continues to accumulate and improve with age, rather than the decline of rivers and rivers. Therefore, she chose the cultivation of her own life, experienced setbacks and tempering to accumulate bit by bit, improve her knowledge and vision, and also achieve her temperament and wisdom.
Women's self-cultivation is the growth of the self, remember to recharge themselves, always maintain a positive and self-motivated mentality, and do a heart that always maintains a temperament like lan, exquisite and soft.
Let's talk about what kind of woman can be beautiful for a lifetime today.
1, temperament such as orchid to make women beautiful for life
Zeng Guopan said, "It is difficult to change the temperament of people, but reading books can change their temperament." ”
A woman's appearance cannot withstand the test of time, and only temperament can surpass her appearance. Women can learn to cultivate their own connotations and change their temperament through reading.
Douyin net red Aunt Xuerui, 60 years old, her body is convex and curved, energetic, gentle in conversation, and still maintains a girlish mentality. Every day, she records her beautiful life with short videos, from dressing, diet management, reading and exercising, showing her full and exquisite life. Many of her 60-year-old peers have entered a contented, slow-paced retirement life, while she once studied English in a foreign country and traveled with young people in their 20s. After returning to China, she still maintains healthy and positive living habits: insisting on learning to read, exercise, enrich her hobbies and interests every day, and live a very calm life, learning to cook, learning music, learning to draw and so on.
Temperament can be cultivated, it reads well, learns to accept new things, and constantly accumulates in the process of its own growth, blooming from the inside out.
In addition to the cultivation of temperament, women must also have wisdom cultivation.
2) The wise woman's life is successful
It doesn't matter if you're married, or unmarried; happy or unhappy. But I will tell you that wisdom is a compulsory course in a woman's life.
Wise women live a life full of fun, self-confidence, not humility, no matter what happens, they are smiling and facing it calmly.
The heroine of the TV series "Thirty Only", Gu Jia. As the name suggests, as a full-time wife, she keeps the family and her husband's company in order, and is a wise woman who can get out of the hall and into the kitchen. While taking care of the family and children, through her resourcefulness, she helped her husband expand the company's connections. When her husband offended the biggest customer, Gu Jia stepped forward to interview this big customer, but after the customer made unreasonable demands on her, she decisively gave up cooperation with the customer. In order to be able to support the company's operation, win trust in their own interpersonal circles, and find customer resources for the company.
Gu Jia is the representative of a wise woman, no matter what the situation, can face it calmly, handle things without being alarmed, smile, and have a clear judgment ability on things. When things happen, you can think calmly and find ways to solve them, and no matter how big things and small things in life are treated seriously.
It is not enough to maintain a lifetime of beautiful light and wisdom, but also to cultivate the mind at any time.
3. Meditation is another practice of a woman's beauty
Women are born emotional, and meditation is also a woman's lifelong practice.
When your inner capacity is small, small things will become big things; when your inner capacity is large, big things will become small things. Only by being open-minded can we tolerate the things around us; only with a humble heart can we treat the things around us with a benevolent heart; only with a calm heart can we talk about the things around us; only by maintaining a normal heart can we deal with ever-changing things freely.
The company has such a sister, soft heart, gentle words and deeds, we tell her what she is smiling. Everyone's flaws are small things in her eyes, and she once said that everyone is a good person. The company colleagues are very fond of finding her, listening to her opinions, and the troubles on us, she is willing to listen patiently. Every time the impetuous heart, under her comfortable enlightenment, the problem is solved. Listening to her speak is a purification of the soul.
Appearance is a portrayal of a person's soul. You have hatred in your heart, your face is heavy; you are joyful in your heart, your face is joyful. Cultivating the heart can make people's hearts good, wide hearts, and fixed hearts, so that women's appearance can remain glorious and radiant.
Women of different ages and different flowering periods, bloom different beauty, do not be arrogant. Women need continuous training, continuous growth and tempering in order to achieve a beautiful life with temperament, wisdom and heart.