Tonight (August 7) "Do Not Disturb", a male guest came for the ex, "I like a person for a long time, I originally had a little blessing mentality before going on stage, but the moment I saw her, I really couldn't hold back, and I still hoped that we could get back together." Seeing her ex-boyfriend appear on the stage, the heroine Guan Haonan was also very emotional, "I haven't seen him for a long time, he has lost a lot of weight." When I met him, I also felt that our feelings were still there. "In the end, can two people break the mirror and reunite?"
"I like a person for a long, long time"
The day that male guest Chen Zihao appeared on the stage of "Do Not Disturb" happened to be his birthday, "I am looking forward to giving myself a very special gift." "Golfing, horseback riding, road driving, photography, archery... In life, he always likes to try a lot of new things, but he can't change that he is always an emotionally nostalgic person, "Every time I see the three words 'first love face', I will think of the first love, baby fat melon face, high nose bridge, smiling eyes." 」 She was the same table I had been chasing for three years, and we weren't together until I went abroad, and we would write letters a lot and bring each other souvenirs when we went all over the world, and these things I kept even after the end of the relationship. ”
Asked why he kept those souvenirs of his ex, Chen Zihao said: "I like a person will like a long time, a relationship is over, I have to use a long, long time to forget, and I still don't know whether this is an advantage or a disadvantage." I think it's a very good memory, and I can occasionally miss what I did in the past that was particularly stupid or particularly proud, and I saw that those things can be recalled, but it represents a commemorative meaning, not that I can't put it down. I think that everyone comes out of the shadow of lost love not necessarily through sadness or even hatred, but also through gratitude for the growth that that person has brought you, generously bid farewell to the past, and then go to the future with sincerity and enthusiasm. ”
"I haven't seen you in a long time, you've lost a lot of weight"
This time to "Do Not Disturb", Chen Zihao is for a very special person, "My ex-girlfriend gave me a model car built with Lego, and I liked it at that time and kept it all the time." Moreover, the person who sent me this model happened to be on the scene, and she was Guan Haonan, the No. 2 girl. Hearing this, everyone was surprised: it turned out that this male guest actually came for the ex?! Guan Haonan's response made the male guest instantly break through the defense, "I haven't seen you for a long time, you have lost a lot of weight." Chen Zihao responded: "After breaking up with you, I have been thinking about tea and dinner, day and night, and I have indeed been haggard a lot." ”
The male guest continued: "Actually, we didn't break up for too long, that model was given to me by her at 520 this year, and then we broke up in June. Our relationship is not too big a problem, the main thing is that she thinks that I am a bit of a mother, that my mother cares too much for me, takes care of me too much, and thinks that I am not independent enough. Guan Haonan also couldn't help but say: "Maybe because he is a single-parent family and grew up with his mother, his mother really took too good care of him." Even when the two of us were in love, his mother was a little too involved, which made it a little difficult for me to accept. To sum up, there are two reasons, one is the personality of his mother, and the other is that his mother is involved too much. ”
Can a broken mirror be re-rounded?
After the breakup, Chen Zihao was still paying attention to Guan Haonan, "I learned through her friends that she was coming to "Do Not Disturb", in fact, after she told me to break up, I have not admitted this result, after all, we have so many good memories together, and I think we still have a lot of things to say clearly. Meng Fei asked: "First of all, we must determine one thing, do you want to explain clearly with the girl what was not clear at the beginning, and then look for your own happiness; or do you want to have a good chance to communicate with the girl and be willing to start over with her in your heart?" ”
Chen Zihao responded: "In fact, I started with a little bit of a blessing for her mentality, but the moment I met, I was a little nervous. I remember that she once promised me, 'Ten thousand lights, will leave a lamp for me'. I hope she can really understand my heart for her, I am really not a 'mommy boy', I still hope to be able to get back together in my heart. Today is my birthday and it would be the best gift if we could hold hands again. Guan Haonan's light was still on, and his emotions were more excited, "When I saw you, I felt that our feelings were still there, can you talk to your aunt about it, don't dislike me." ”
In this situation, Meng Fei couldn't help but burst into tears, "From the perspective of a bystander, I think the feelings of the two people are indeed still there, and the girl actually likes the boy in her heart." I also want to say to the boy's mother, no matter how much you love your son, it is best not to interfere too much in his emotional life. In the future together, I believe that boys will also maintain a sense of boundary with their mothers. "In the end, can the two people break the mirror and renew the leading edge?"
Watch tip: Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Do Not Disturb" is brilliantly staged tonight (Saturday, August 7) at 20:30!