How difficult it is for the post-80s generation, our parents are even more difficult, and we are the most difficult and the most hard-working generation

Today I accidentally saw a [Lu Kewen Studio] published a research video on Henan, we Henan people have been discriminated against in other places, thank you for your pertinent research on Henan people, thank you, speaking for Henan people is indeed like his research, real and warm. It reminds me of my post-80s parents and our experiences, my ancestral home is From Shangqiu, Henan, and my memory of our house is also so dilapidated. Grandpa's generation is living on farming, but the income is particularly small, and the children are more, the preference for sons and daughters was particularly serious at that time, who if the family is more girls, it will also be discriminated against by the villagers, which is also the timidity and panic caused by poverty and lack of self-confidence, after the change of time, my parents encountered the country's family planning, high fines, my sister and I lived in hiding in Tibet, but still fined, saw the parents' embarrassment, helplessness, in that environment our brothers and sisters do not understand why their parents gave birth so much, It is also something that most families do not understand. So forced by helplessness, my parents took us away from home, sat on the green car box that burned coal in memory, and went to a strange city, my parents worked for others, my brother took me, and I took my sister's responsibility. It has been a year since my parents worked hard to make some money, and they have gained a foothold in the city and started a small business. The following spring my parents saved a lot of money and went home to build 2 floors. It is also because of that poor environment, family chores. Relatives and friends have come to ask Dad to borrow money, Dad is a typical warm-hearted person, in the words of Mom, to earn two money do not know who they are? I don't know that my family has many children, I have to go to school, because my grandparents don't want to call me to school, my mother is angry and takes me back to my mother's house, my mother deeply appreciates the horror of no culture, once said a word, smashing pots and selling iron also wants you to go to school, because mother's mother's mother's family is learned, the conditions are good, but it is also the idea of son preference, and my mother wants to change. Hope pinned on his children, maybe our birth is to complete the parents' unfinished ideals, we also met family planning after 80, I hung up the label black household since I was a child, superfluous. [The so-called discrimination] is also the ordeal brought about by my family's poverty. Due to the limited time, I will not elaborate. The helplessness and heartache of this may also be the experience of all the post-80s, and it is also the epitome of most northern children. There are also families that are more bitter than my family. Friends in the south, estimate better... For our future, our parents once again took us away from home, went to relatives in school, we witnessed our parents drinking cold water and eating steamed buns, working 4 jobs a day, getting up early in the morning and selling breakfast, so day after day, year after year, we finally gave us a home of our own in the city of his hometown, and the hukou was also moved to the city of his hometown, and my sister and I were not black households. It was a happy year and we were finally in town. I remember that year my mother bought us all new clothes. candy. We stayed in this city for many years. The brothers graduated, and like most people, the post-80s arrived at the age of marriage and encountered a series of problems such as high house prices, marriage difficulties, bride price, and so on... So much so that each of our families has a child. Except for the little sister who is unmarried, because she is a post-90s. Mom accidentally got pregnant. Parental urging to marry give birth. Now that the country has let go of 3 children, our post-80s elders are called a big set of births... We are called a helpless, not that we do not want to be born, but do not dare to give birth. There are elderly parents on the top, children on the bottom, social pressure. The main problems are that we in the post-80s generation are afraid to return to a helpless life of poverty. Every child pressure is so big, who still wants to put pressure on themselves, all the helplessness is linked to the economic chain, many post-80s also have to have a second child, a third child, maybe someone behind them silently pays, the economy is stable enough. Our post-80s generation is the most difficult and hard-working generation, and it is also the epitome of society.