The author | Niu Mama Peng Xiaobang
▲Pay attention to me, and live calmly and freely together
As a result, the child grows from small to large,
It's in this state of boiling frogs in warm water
How can not find their own sense of value and presence,
But it is really inseparable from the care of parents
(You envy other people's good parents, and he also envies your own feeling of hard work)
(Mainly there's really no need for him to think anything for anyone)
Although in fact,
They already have more than ordinary people,
But they never feel enough.
There is a great sense of scarcity.
Maybe you think you don't know how to be grateful, you deserve it,
But in fact,
It's not that he meant it.
His feelings are objectively existent,
He did feel a lot of pain.
Happiness is low.
Many only children say,
It's hard for them to understand what a true sibling is.
After all, I really haven't felt it.
Everybody is asking for love from a child,
Especially some parents whose husband and wife have a bad relationship,
Or rather,
Parents who do not attach importance to the relationship between husband and wife, do not spend energy on managing the relationship between husband and wife,
They don't need love anymore,
It's not that you don't give love anymore,
It's transferring it all to the child,
The love that should have been a husband and wife relationship,
They also spilled out to the children
Mother Cow's heart
Today's topic is what I wrote about some time ago. I have written many articles about the parenting of multi-child families before, every child will encounter difficulties in the family, and every parent will encounter challenges in parenting, even if it is an only child.
But this does not mean that every family is exactly the same, that one cause leads to a fixed outcome, and that everyone will have their own creative ideas.
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#0-6 years of parenting #