Ten steps to rebuilding the parent-child relationship

1. Give the child time, let the child's suppressed emotions for many years be accepted by the parents;

2. The child will see whether the parents have really changed or changed falsely;

3. If the parents are false, the child will be more rebellious and behave worse;

4. If the parents are really changed, the child will trust the parents more;

5. When the child's trust in the parents increases, the child can ask about his own thoughts, plans and worries;

6. Whatever the child does, affirm his positive motives;

7. The child will feel that the parents understand him better;

8. When the child feels that the parents understand him better, they will be more willing to open their hearts;

9. Find a way to find a coping plan together, and then let the children choose and take responsibility for themselves. Regardless of the outcome, praise his efforts and efforts, and he is more willing to self-manage;

10. For the next 100 years, use such a positive thinking to look at him, define him, and hint at him, instead of judging the right and wrong of a certain thing, and get caught in a power struggle!

The child is no problem, the parents grow up on their own, the child's problem will be naturally resolved!