On a Saturday six years ago, a group held a blind date at the East Lake Scenic Area. Those who have blind date needs, spend 30 yuan to buy a ticket, and get an internally printed marriage information booklet. I used public for private gain, showed my press card to enter free of charge, and while hanging up a marriage advertisement, I captured beautiful women. The blind date ends the next day. I met with several women on the spot, all said to contact later, after the breakup they went to browse other marriage notices, one woman actually said that she would come back tomorrow.
The blind date was originally scheduled to end at 3:30 p.m., and by 4:30 p.m., there were still many people wandering around the venue. Blind dates will be the world of young people after the 80s, and there is almost no market for us old men who have been divorced after 60s. Two hours after the 3 wedding advertisements were posted, someone started calling my mobile phone, answered a few phones, and the mobile phone never rang again. I sat on a rock and waited silently.
On a stone bench two meters away, sat a middle-aged man. At about four o'clock in the afternoon, he said to himself that he had to post a picture. I smiled at him. He asked me, "You're here for a blind date too." I said yes. He said, you are gone. I said yes, what about you? He handed me a copy of the marriage advertisement he was going to post, and it turned out that he was a special teacher in a middle school, 39 years old, and unmarried. I said, you are very good at this condition! He sighed and said, "It's not easy to find." Because he taught at a middle school on the outskirts of Wuhan.
He asked me, are you working in downtown Wuhan. I said yes.
I am a divorced man after 60, he is an unmarried man after 70, but I feel that his face is almost as old as mine. Perhaps, I inadvertently revealed a sense of self-confidence and superiority in front of him, and vaguely stabbed him and nagged. He said, what marriage is divorced? It is not a high-ranking official with a large amount of money, and if you are divorced, you can still find a yellow flower girl.
I can't help but say that I can find a yellow flower girl alone, but it is not suitable for me. In fact, two unmarried post-70s women contacted me on this day. However, I didn't say anything, only smiled at him.
Not long ago, I once had a girlfriend, divorced, and no children around. When it came time to talk about marriage, he broke up without a word. A friend heard that I was talking about a divorced girlfriend and showed a disdain.
After a man divorces, he then looks for a yellow flower girl as his wife, which seems to be called a skill. This kind of secular prejudice not only harms others and harms oneself, but also harms society.
Incidents of principals and teachers sexually assaulting minor female students in various places are examples. There are even more dignitaries and corrupt elements who are pampered and treated well, and they take pleasure in buying and breaking melons at high prices, which has triggered many righteous people in society to come forward one after another and resolutely criticize them.
Internet celebrity rogue Yan once held up a sign that reads "Principal: Open the room to find me, let go of primary school students" in protest. A female professor took a picture of her naked body with scissors and made it public in response.
In fact, adult men, whether for marriage or pleasure, should not look for those who are their nephews, daughters, or even granddaughters.
As far as marriage is concerned, a man with experience, facing a yellow flower girl like a white paper, is mentally unequal, and there are inevitably bumps and bumps after marriage. Since ancient times, beautiful women love teenagers, and old men have possessed certain resource advantages, and obtaining the body of a beautiful woman is like obtaining an object, and it is difficult to obtain a woman's heart. Although she is a waiter, she is very anxious and thinks of men of the same age.
The old man's increasingly loose skin, often forgetting to trim the nose hair, and more and more serious inability to do so, will definitely cause the little girl a lot of disgust, contradiction and unhappiness. If there is no spiritual fit for each other, how can we talk about happiness and happiness?
I remember that in the university classroom, an aesthetics professor said when talking about aesthetics, the beauty of the mountains is in the peak, the beauty of the water is in the potential, the beauty of the house is in the eaves, and the beauty of women is in rhyme.
It can be seen that the charm of women lies in the charm and style, and the beauty of the yellow flower girl lies only in the shape. Therefore, a rational remarried man, in the face of the hydrangea thrown by the yellow flower girl, must be cautious, is she your dish in the end?
As for seeking pleasure, the yellow flower girl since ancient times is not the first choice for high-ranking officials and nobles. Many emperors in successive dynasties have raised concubines of the three palaces and six courtyards not to go to Linxing, but to spoil a certain red and pink lady in the hutong, resulting in the palace women being girls until death.
There are also literati and scholars, and the Qinglou has left its name. The famous verse "Spring breeze triumphs over horseshoe disease, see all the Chang'an flowers in one day", it is said that seeing all the Chang'an flowers refers to prostitutes.
Folk also have vulgar slang that "wives are not as good as concubines, concubines are not as good as prostitutes, prostitutes are not as good as stealing, stealing is better than stealing".
The Northern Song Dynasty was instructed to fill in the words of the lyricist Liu Yong, a lifetime of "fireworks alley stranger, according to the Jordan Green Barrier." Fortunately, I have a crush on my heart and can be searched for. And snuggled red and green, affairs, peace and happiness. Youth is a flash. Endure the floating name, change the shallow low singing", after death or the Qinglou woman raised funds to bury him.
All this shows that the yellow flower girl should not be the object of an old man or marriage or sexual pleasure. Those men who are deliberately trying to hurt the yellow flower girl, in addition to being inferior to the beasts, should be a bunch of upstarts who have not been educated and lack taste!