Author/Tongyu
It is very normal that you can't put it down after separation.
If the feelings in this world can really be completely controlled by their own state of mind, there will not be so much love and hate.
Many people in the relationship, are the reason understand a lot, but when things really fall on themselves, or can not escape a lot of difficult peace, not willing, so watch themselves into a period of abnormal emotions, but completely unable to save themselves.
Loving and being loved, many times are insincere, and leaving or not is an uncontrollable thing.
I have a friend who once faced her ex with affection, which made me feel if she was deceived, obviously the other party scum her many times, and she also understood that he did not love himself at all. But the more so, the more she loved in her giving. She used to think that he was different from others, and their feelings would eventually be different, and finally she understood that they were all bad street plots, and they were never special.
Some people, you can't put it down, not only because the twisted melon is not sweet, but also because in the final analysis, you need to let yourself go.
In the face of an unworthy person, or leave as soon as possible, the more resolute you go, the more you can thank yourself later.
Another point is that even if you can't put down the other party after disconnection, don't do 3 stupid things.
Writing a small essay is really one of the more stupid things in any relationship.
It is common for the person who wrote it to write affectionately, reminiscing about the past in various ways, and writing himself to tears. At this time, people who write small essays are particularly prone to overestimate each other's affection, thinking that these things they write can also impress each other and make a new turn in the feelings of two people.
What I want to tell you is: you think too much.
A person who truly loves you will not reduce you to the point of always writing small essays. Because any person, whether male or female, once they start to write small essays, can only prove that this person has accumulated a lot of grievances in this relationship and cannot be reasonably resolved.
So, your little essay, your long speech in your own eyes, is fighting for the relationship, but in the eyes of the other party, most of them will only feel that you are bored, always write something that Rory is wordy.
The person who really understands you will make your emotions relaxed and happy in the relationship, and you won't think about writing little essays. Especially after separation, some people are reluctant to do so, even if the two people have broken off, but they still occasionally send some small essays in the past, expressing their reluctance to the past and missing the present.
The more you write, the more sincere you are, maybe people have not read it at all, no, the reality is so cruel, after you recognize it, you can put it down.
After drinking too much, it may enlarge a lot of the usual emotions, and many people like to use this wine to ignore and express their true emotions after drinking too much.
However, if you do such a thing after two people have broken up, you are actually just making yourself more humble.
When separated, it has become an established fact, and no matter what you do, it cannot actually change this result. Your affection, falling in the eyes of the other party at this time, is just a pure disturbance.
In any intimate relationship, I hope you can remember to love yourself more, only in this way can you get the love and respect of others.
If you yourself have to desperately stomp your personal dignity completely on the ground, then the final outcome of your feelings can most likely be expected, and you will lose miserably.
So, don't do such a stupid thing, slowly let yourself out. Seeing a sentence, time is not necessarily the antidote, but there must be time in the antidote. As long as you are willing to let go of the obsession in your heart, about everything in the future, you will see new differences, love and being loved, and will still come to you.
There are some people who, after disconnecting, will continue to repeat this emotion in their hearts because they can't put it down, and eventually lead to trapping themselves in the emotions of the past and unable to get out.
Most people like this can no longer see the reality, but only believe in what they are willing to believe, such as: He who once loved me so much, how can he later say that he does not love and does not love?
The word love is never static, it will increase or decrease, it will also shift, a person who loved you in the past, does not mean that he will love you now.
Of course, you don't have to doubt the truth or falsity of this love, the love that was once true, and the later love is also true, so you have to look at it rationally.
Those who are trapped in the past emotions are always unwilling to believe in the fact that they do not love, blindly self-deception, cheating more, but also unconsciously carrying out inner self-reinforcement, constantly consolidating personal feelings, so that they cannot distinguish their reluctance, whether it is because they are unwilling, or whether they really love each other so much.
But most people don't make the difference, because whatever the emotion, it will eventually become unwilling to leave, trying to save everything.
But it turns out that the more one does in a relationship that has been lost, it is like holding a handful of sand in his hand, and the harder he tries, the faster the sand will pass.
Anything that needs to be done is to go with the flow.
About love.
I want to tell you that when you can't let go of a person, you don't have to blame yourself, you don't have to force yourself to forget, breaking up is not a loss of love, it is impossible to forget, the more you emphasize a certain outcome, the more likely it is to backfire.
All you need to do: Do what you're looking for, you can keep yourself busy, get a little busier, and look for the sense of loss that love brings from life or work. There are many things you can love, don't limit yourself to one person. You have to tell yourself that you are good, you deserve to be loved by good people, do not doubt yourself, the failure of any relationship is not one person's fault, nor is it that you are not excellent, some people are just not suitable.
When we say goodbye to a wrong encounter, we can usher in a completely correct reunion, don't we?
When you can use a rational and calm attitude to face anyone leaving, treat it well when you come, and if you want to go seriously, you will really grow up.
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