Recently, I watched the interviews of Jiang Shan and Li Na, they are coaches and players who have tacit understanding on the field, husband and wife who support each other in life, and they are close partners in their careers. In the process of reaching the peak hand in hand, a pair of complementary partners is always the best model for two people to achieve each other.
Jiang Shan: Happy time for the two of us together? Li Na: No.
Jiang Shan: I like to play games. Li Na: I like to clean up, you like to make trouble.
Li Na: What do you dislike about me the most? Jiang Shan: Jiang Shan, your door is not closed!
Li Na: What do you think is the biggest crisis between the two of us? Jiang Shan: What crisis, emotional crisis? Li Na: There is no emotional crisis.
Li Na: What are the things that you have been commenting on about me recently? Jiang Shan: Just now, you are still mentioning the old things.
Jiang Shan: You know what a saying is called, (Jiang) Jiangshan is easy to change and difficult to move. Li Na: Did you change it? Jiang Shan: I can't change it.
Li Na: When do you think I am strong? Jiang Shan: I don't think it's a matter of strength or weakness, what do you want to gain in a person's family? You have to act weaker and prove that you are strong. Because you carry more tolerance and understanding, this is the way to get along. Li Na: Applause! applaud!
Li Na: When do you want to say thank you to me? Jiang Shan: I feel like we're saying thank you every day.
Li Na: It's not the habit of saying thank you, but I am very touched by some of the things you have done and need to say thank you. Jiang Shan: You say it first. Li Na: It is you who let go of your dreams, for my dreams, accompanied me to participate in competitions around the world, which I would like to thank.
Jiang Shan: Have you ever disappointed me? Li Na: Not at the moment, have you ever disappointed me? Jiang Shan: It's not disappointment, it's that we didn't fight for the world's first place in the end for a joint goal, maybe a little disappointed, with disappointment, there is hope, of course, you have done a good job.
Li Na: Why do I have only hope for you and are not disappointed? Jiang Shan: Wow!
Li Na: You say that the two of us are completely different how did we form a family? Jiang Shan: I think the two of us are like two magnets, yin and yang, never together, like a train track, but our life goals are the same.
Li Na: We just don't have crossover points, do we? Ginger Mountain: Intersection! The train crashed!
Jiang Shan: Do you think there is a secret between the two of us? Li Na: Not for you, absolutely not!
Jiang Shan: Then I'm a little stingy, I keep myself. Just like a flower, there are a lot of petals, and when the flower opens you think it opens, and in fact there are petals that don't fully open, that is, everyone's heart will retain a little bit, I think it's good, if you give it all to others, it's not yourself.
Li Na: Do you think we are complementary? Jiang Shan: Yes, work is even more so. Jiang Shan: Because you are good at walking (moving). Li Na: You are good at drawing cakes. Jiang Shan: You are good at eating the cake. Jiang Shan: I say sentences, you fill in the comma. What you see is the opposite, what I see is the positive, it is indeed a complementary relationship. From the beginning, they were partners, and after everyone worked together for a common dream, they produced a marriage, and marriage achieved a partnership relationship.
Jiang Shan: If I lose my memory right away, what do you want me to remember? Li Na: I hope you remember you, you don't have to remember me. If you remember me but don't remember you, then you have no soul.
Jiang Shan: If you have amnesia, you must also remember yourself, and you don't have to remember that you are the champion, remember yourself, the most sincere little girl. Li Na: Hee-hee.
Li Na: What do you think our next peak moment will be? Jiang Shan: I don't know what kind of end you are in the end, but you have been working hard, the peak is coming at any time, whether in life or work, as long as the direction of the two people is the same, I feel that it is mutual achievement. Li Na: You are achieving me and you are also achieving yourself!
Two strong individuals in a marriage, sometimes deliberately showing weakness, showing tolerance and understanding, are really strong.