I have long said that many parents in China have long lost confidence in their own lives, do not hold out hope, are willing to take a back seat, admit mediocrity, hide behind the petite flesh of the child, give the child the ultimate to exaggeration and dog blood and even full of drama and topical strange logistics services, tie the child's flesh to the front end of the siege hammer, let the child hit the city gate plate of the class for himself.
Children from childhood under this kind of touching Chinese-style hard narrative discourse, brainwashed, kidnapped, not touched by the parents' efforts can not be, a little slack can not be, the achievements are slightly ups and downs, it feels that the last generation of Chongzhen is responsible for the world, bear the same guilt of the ancestors, mental repression, the timeline is the anxiety of the mediocre father and inferior mother, resentment, grievance, frustration, hopelessness, and the so-called love of the changed species, completely stuffed, not dead or crazy are all fate.
I have always said that many people's obsession with school districts and schools now comes more from their parents themselves, who are afraid that they will not be able to fight a good school district and will not be able to lift their heads in middle age at the same age.
Once they can't get into a good school district, a good school, once the child has a big decline in grades, he will rely on investing in the child, re-warehouse the child, worship the child's education, and rely on the child to achieve the plan of the rest of his life.
On the contrary, the most concerned is not the child's grades and growth. They are so obsessed with school district rooms, good kindergartens, good primary schools, but parents' own face and sense of success pk!
Children line, I have light, I am anyway to take a back seat, specializing in logistics, I do not have to directly accept the comparison of a large number of social resources and personality elements between parents. As long as I pushed the hard, not easy, difficult, and concerned about the child's achievements to the extreme, I avoided the pursuit of the distorted social evaluation system.
This is almost the most tired generation of children in five thousand years, and the most cowardly and incompetent group of parents.
Can you imagine the Bull Demon King, the Princess of the Iron Fan, not going into battle, hiding at home, cultivating red children full-time, going to fight with various yokai, and undertaking the mission of transcendent sainthood and cultivating immortality for his own family?
No, it's not.
Journey to the West in the Cow Devil King himself has been working hard in the front desk, he and Sun Wukong 500 years ago called brothers and brothers, eight worship as friends, build connections everywhere, seize their short life, struggle hard, climb, red children instead of a laissez-faire, barbaric growth, hairstyle freedom, happiness boundless, not by the three years of college entrance examination five years of simulation kidnapping of the feet can be inserted in the fragrant soil, nose and eyes are full of mountain green fruits and safflower light fragrance of the unrestrained demon second generation.
Maybe it's happier than Zhang Gazi, who goes up to the tree to touch birds in Baiyangdian and catches fish in the river.
The Bull Devil King will not be cowardly and completely degenerate into a logistics minister, give up his cattle life, put all his energy on the children, and put the young children to the forefront of social competition. And many parents in China are now inferior to the Bull Devil King!
You claim to be better for your children, are you good yourself?
How many times do you supervise your child's Chinese test and the math test every day, and how many times do you rank in the parent group with a rational mind? How many brave and tenacious are there? How many are generous optimism ranked? How many patient cultivation are there?
I like Liu Wentian's cover of "Dream Back to the Tang Dynasty", the lyrics in it are extremely raw, almost the highest level of Chinese music image construction, meteorological rendering, and emotional martyrdom.
Tonight's wine, reflecting the bright moon,
Men and women weave, and the Silk Road is busy.
Haojie is heroic, and the big qianjin is bright.
Liu Wentian was 36 years old when he sang the song in China's good voice. Although he sang "along the palm print, branded with fate", he did not submit to the so-called fate, but took his wife and children, a family of three, to fight for a chance to let himself (not for anyone, nor let anyone else replace himself) to bloom his life.
Liu Wentian in a good voice explosion scene video
Isn't it said that people like Liu Wentian reach middle age, still not willing to be at the mercy of fate, personally go down, roll up their sleeves and fight with the fate of the male cultivator and female weaver, Haojie heroic?