A hundred years of repair to cross the same boat, a thousand years to repair a sleep together. Every fate is hard-won, and every marriage is the greatest luck for two people.
The writer Leonidova said: "The basis of marriage is love, attachment, respect. ”
Two people depend on each other, and the feelings have sustenance. Being able to treat each other as family can we get along harmoniously every day.
Fading the freshness, the two people should maintain a positive state.
In the face of life's ups and downs, everyone should be full of confidence.
Once passion for love is lost, the feelings of two people are in jeopardy.
I don't want to maintain an exhausted relationship anymore, and the fate has come to an end.
Love or unlove is a sign. Every couple, when the fate has ended, there are "signs", just look at the four details.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" Data-track="9" > when there is nothing to say, understand that silence is more difficult than arguing</h1>
Once two people lose the bond of feelings, they will become speechless.
Even if you sit together, you are in a state of looking at each other. There are no waves in the heart, and the passion is no longer there.
The writer Szymborska wrote in "After the Unexpected Encounter": "In the middle of the conversation we were dumbfounded, smiling helplessly. Our people, there is nothing to say. It turned out that it had long been a passerby. ”
I'd rather play with my phone than talk. I'd rather talk to my cold phone than express my thoughts to my partner.
Without communication between two people, the marriage is left with only an empty shell.
Unable to get satisfaction from the other person, they want to seek stimulation from the outside world. Tired of the same life, you will no longer be bored with yourself. Treat the other person as a dispensable person and will not share anything with him again.
Feelings come to the end, every sentence is superfluous, every expression is wasted.
No amount of explanation can be closer, but it is better to close your mouth and find a self-purification.
Once two people get used to this state of silence, they will not rush in both directions.
Nothing is willing to be discussed, life no longer intersects, and the distance between two people is getting farther and farther.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="20" > will still enjoy the world, but I will no longer have your participation in my life</h1>
In the variety show "Goodbye Lover", two guests shared their stories: female guests got up at five o'clock in the morning to wash and exercise, and after a busy morning, male guests lazily got up.
At seven o'clock in the evening, the female guests had already turned off the lights and went to sleep, and the male guests really started their nightlife.
Although the two people live under the same roof, they have no communication in life. Each does his own thing, does not disturb each other, and does not care about each other.
The distance is too great, like setting a gap between two people, and it can never be crossed.
If you don't want to be involved in his life anymore, you won't influence his lifestyle.
Neither of them is willing to take the initiative, so they take care of themselves. Love loses its point of intersection, and two people can only become roommates.
You are out of the other person's life, and the other person is not willing to enter your world.
Two people are constantly consuming in this way, and it seems that only time can maintain the feelings between each other.
It seems that there is nothing wrong with each other, but in fact it seems to be in a trance.
Focusing only on your own things has long forgotten the other person.
If you don't want to spend any more energy on managing love, you will no longer struggle with who is right and who is wrong.
Two people have no common experience, and their feelings have nowhere to go.
When encountering things, you will only think for yourself, and your enthusiasm for love has long been reduced to indifference.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="34" > temper and personality are incompatible, and reality and disappointment are mixed</h1>
Two people can't reach a consensus on concepts, common hobbies are less and less, and common language no longer exists.
No longer willing to put yourself in the other person's shoes, everything you do is to satisfy your own selfish desires.
Loving someone will be selflessly dedicated, and when you don't love, you will be left aside.
Forget each other's joys and sorrows, forget each other's living habits, influence each other with their own ideas, and never ask each other's true feelings.
In "No Love Is No Love", there is such a sentence: "After deep understanding, I found that the actual him was not the same as the one I thought of." ”
There are changes in love, largely because of not loving.
Two people who are separated from their essential life will change their original appearance.
Once the other person expresses an accusation of feelings, you may even think that he is making a fuss for no reason.
Without tacit understanding, the two people are like strangers. The other person is no longer your habit, and you will not take the initiative to pay for him.
Having long since removed the other person from life, he is no longer the most important person in your life.
If there is disagreement, you quarrel, and if you quarrel, you will escape.
The fundamental problem has never been solved, and the knot in the hearts of two people can never be opened.
All carelessness is perfunctory, and the end of the love is ignored.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="48" > love has long been exhausted, and the marriage has come to an end</h1>
In the TV series "Flowing Golden Years", Jiang Nansun said to his mother: "Ms. Dai Yin, you should go out without hesitation, I hope you can really be happy and free."
When daddy is gone, you don't have to be Mrs. Jiang anymore; when I grow up, you don't have to be Nansun's mother anymore; grandma handed it over to me, and you don't have to be her daughter-in-law anymore, you should be yourself. ”
Getting married isn't necessarily about pursuing happiness, but divorce will give you more freedom.
If two people really can't get by, they have already had the idea of divorce.
If a decision is made one day, it should be decided on the spot.
Don't hesitate in your relationship to have more time to find the next happiness.
If you can't get by, you don't have to force it, and if two people have nothing to say, there is no need to get along.
You are not an appendage of anyone, and you should not seek perfection for love. Life is yours and you should manage it with your heart.
The marriage has come to an end, and there is no need to be too emotional.
Ending a wrong relationship is a great blessing in life.
If they can't live, they will go their separate ways, and after that, the two people will not disturb each other.
Divorce may not be the best option, but there is no more effective way than divorce.
Only by getting rid of suffering can we get real release. Only by letting go of the past can we start a new life.
Writer Yang Dai said: "The people surrounding the city want to escape, and the people outside the city want to rush in." This is true of marriage, career, and life. ”
When in love, two people are full of yearning for marriage. Wait until you really become the person trapped in the shackles, and then you know how beautiful a person's life is.
Marriage brings us too much bondage and pain, and we can only spend time alone on days when no one is talking to us. End an impossible relationship in order to harvest your own happy life.
Whether it's one person or two people, you should follow the direction of your heart. Even if you are alone in the end, at least you will not regret it for the rest of your life.