Ellie, the second female in the TV series "The Temptation to Go Home", is also an important villain, with the nickname of "Pinru's Wardrobe".
Ellie was originally the adopted daughter of the Lin family, Lin Pinru's girlfriend, and Hong Shixian's girlfriend at the beginning. However, Hong Shixian empathized and abandoned Ellie on the grounds that "they are not suitable for marriage" and married Lin Pinru instead.
Ellie has always believed that lin pinru's parents swallowed her parents' pension to raise a pair of children, but deprived Ellie of the qualification to go to a better school, plus Hong Shixian's affairs, making her hate Lin Pinru even more. In order to regain everything she thinks belongs to her and let her son Shang En recognize her ancestors and return to the ancestors, Ellie did not hesitate to become a third party, designed Lin Pinru, and ruined Lin Pinru's marriage with Hong Shixian. Lin Pinru fell into the sea and lost her child, and Ellie accounted for a great share of the sin.
In fact, with Ellie's skills and means, she can completely live as a winner in life, if Ellie understands the 3 truths, she will not turn against Lin Pinru, and she will not bear the name of Xiao San and be discredited. Even without Hong Shixian, with her ability, it is not impossible to live a good life.
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In "The Temptation to Go Home", Hong Shixian is a complete scumbag, in his eyes, love and marriage are like children's plays.
Throughout the play, Hong Shixian has been married three times, once with Lin Pinru, once with Ellie, and one with "Gao Shanshan", that is, Lin Pinru who was reborn from Nirvana to avenge. He wants to get married, he wants to leave, and he doesn't take marriage seriously at all.
The reason why Ellie wants to rob her husband with Lin Pinru is because she was originally Hong Shixian's first love, and she knew Hong Shixian earlier than Lin Pinru, so Ellie thought that Hong Shixian originally belonged to herself, and Lin Pinru robbed everything that belonged to her, she just took it back.
However, what is the use of a man who has betrayed you? The moment he betrays you, he tells you clearly that he doesn't love you and doesn't want to live with you for the rest of his life. If a man's heart is not on you, it is useless for you to grab his person.
Ellie sabotaged Lin Pinru's marriage and snatched back Hong Shixian as she wished, in exchange for what? It is still Hong Shixian's betrayal. Hong Shixian met "Gao Shanshan", and under her intentional guidance, he soon betrayed Ellie and let Ellie taste Lin Pinru's original taste.
Betrayal, only zero times and countless times of difference, this has nothing to do with the big or small, this is the most untouchable bottom line of marriage. As long as he betrays you, you can't ask for it. Otherwise, you give him a chance to break through your bottom line, and he will have a second time.
There is a saying in the movie "The Blacklist": "Why others dare to do bad things on you, because you make people feel that doing bad things on you can do no price." ”
Hong Shixian betrayed Ellie for the first time, and without paying any price, Ellie returned to him and bore him a son. When he betrayed Ellie for the second time, there was no psychological burden at all. A man like Hong Shixian, who is half-hearted and cannot be single-minded about his feelings, whoever marries him will inevitably be betrayed by him.
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Hong Shixian told Ellie that they were not suitable for marriage, in fact, not only did Hong Shixian not want to marry Ellie, but the entire Hong family did not want to accept Ellie.
Ellie took her son Shang En to the Hong family, the Hong family still refused to accept her into the house, in Hong Guorong's heart, only the child in Lin Pinru's belly was his grandson. Even if Ellie married into the Hong family, Hong Shixian's father Hong Guorong did not give her a good look. Mother-in-law Bai Feng was unceremonious to Ellie, and she drank and waved away, using her as a cash machine.
When Hong Shixian fell in love with "Gao Shanshan" again, Ellie was damaged by Lin Pinru's calculations, and the Hong family unceremoniously drove Ellie out of the house. Throughout, they didn't accept Ellie.
The other family is not willing to accept you, and it is useless to squeeze in with all their efforts. The in-laws can't look up to you, and you rush to get married, which will only make them more disrespectful to you, and you will live without dignity in the in-laws' family.
For women, marriage not only needs to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, but also needs to deal with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When you meet a mother-in-law who does not recognize you, plus a husband who will not protect you, your life will be how sad.
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In fact, Ellie has a way to make herself live a good life, and she does not need the position of the hong family's daughter-in-law at all.
Ellie returned from studying abroad, made a big career with her own skills, and owned the company Venus, which shows the strength of her ability. If she doesn't turn against Lin Pinru, doesn't put her mind on robbing other people's husbands, and concentrates on doing her own business, Ellie can live as a strong woman and become a high gate with her ability.
If a woman has her own strong career, she has self-confidence, and Ellie is not bad-looking, and with these she is enough to attract the attention of the excellent opposite sex and find a man who is a hundred times stronger than Hong Shixian.
Where is the end of the world, there is no herb, why love a flower? Not to mention that this flower is still a scummy man to the extreme. Instead of robbing her husband with others and becoming a third party that everyone shouts and beats, women should first try to improve themselves, make themselves more excellent, and let themselves have better capital to pursue the life you want.
Ellie has the ability, the ability, the means, and is fully equipped to become a winner in life, but unfortunately, she has embarked on the wrong path for an unworthy obsession. Destroying other people's marriages and basing her own happiness on the pain of others, she ended up desolate and blamed herself.
As a woman, you must be responsible for your own life, don't take the wrong path for people who are not worthy, harm others and harm yourself.
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