The source of your pain is excessive attention to others

In addition to life, old age, illness and death,

What's the biggest pain you've ever endured?

I think no matter how happy people live,

All have their own pain,

And this pain can only be digested and felt by itself.

It's a shared era,

All kinds of information resources are everywhere,

The speed of propagation is also extremely fast,

Everyone is also available on various social software

As well as public platforms to show their own lives and attitudes~

Someone to dry, someone to brush,

Behind the sun and brush,

Is it to seek attention?

Or looking for yourself?

I heard many people around me say:

Play less with your phone,

To brush less Weibo,

To brush less circle of friends,

Brush less vibrato、、、

Or want to uninstall these things,

But how many people have actually done it?

Probably only when you brush up on things that seriously affect your emotions, will you think of this?

For example, suddenly brush to:

A familiar fat man is now thinner than you, and more beautiful than you,

A familiar millennium single dog with all kinds of fancy show love,

A grand and romantic wedding of an ex who was once familiar,

A fancy cross-border seaside travel photo of a person who was once shy,

A good friend is now mixed better than you...

Is there already a dark tide in the heart?

muttering:

MD, why haven't I seen growth yet?

suffering

So I made up my mind,

Don't brush it, leave time for struggle!

This kind of pain that pops up from time to time,

Is it really the pain of brushing out?

If yes, can you stop yourself from brushing?

If not, where does this pain come from?

We're always inadvertently watching,

Watching the lives of others,

Watching the state of others,

Watch the struggles of others,

Watching others succeed,

Watching the joy of others,

... ...

And yourself?

Their own status?

Your own goals?

Your own present?

Their own achievements?

Their own joy?

Own life?

。。。

Have you forgotten to give yourself more attention?

When you pay more attention to others than to yourself,

You should get more than pain,

Maybe inadvertently,

I missed the best moment of my life

Ancient language: My three provinces and my body.

How long has it been since you had a sincere conversation with yourself?

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