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I accidentally revisited "The Glory of the Tang Dynasty", and as a result, I was brutally abused, compared to the sadomasochism of "Step by Step".
In "Glory of the Great Tang", too many people have an obsession with love, including Guangping Wang and Pearl. King Guangping is a person who has a very clear understanding of feelings, and at the same time has a strong sense of boundaries, but there are still four women around him who have admired him.
The four women's admiration for King Guangping and their attitude towards love also led to their final ending.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="12" > He Lingyi: If you don't get it, you ruin him</h1>
He Lingyi's identity is very complicated, she is first of all a pawn buried by the Zhang clan in the Guangping Palace, but as a pawn, she is deeply trusted by the King of Guangping in the Guangping King's Palace, she is not only the dead soldier of the Guangping King, but also the grand steward of the Guangping Palace, and all the accounts and internal house management affairs of the Great Palace are taken care of by He Lingyi.
She was also the first woman to fall in love with the King of Guangping, and she was also very attentive to the things she was responsible for, she was eager for the King of Guangping to see her good, and hoped to one day become the real hostess of this royal palace. She was even prepared to betray the Zhang clan for the sake of King Guangping.
However, as the matter of Princess Guangping was put on the agenda, she knew that she had no chance, especially when she saw that King Guangping loved pearls deeply, and her love for King Guangping began to become a kind of control.
When love becomes possessive, becomes desire, this love begins to deteriorate.
The Guangping Palace included two widows at the same time, and He Lingyi hid in the shadows and began to take advantage of the contradictions between the two widows, and began to alienate the feelings of the Guangping King for them. In her opinion, she loved King Guangping to get this person. In order to get this person, she could use all means as long as she eliminated the people around King Guangping.
When her plot was fully exposed, she knew that King Guangping would no longer trust her, and king Guangping's attitude was clear, seeing her as a servant of his own and not a woman from beginning to end. This was something that He Lingyi could not accept, and since he couldn't get it, he would destroy this person.
For He Lingyi, perhaps only when the King of Guangping had nothing to lose, she could approach him again and get him. However, she did not think at all that love is a matter of two people, if only selfishly satisfy their own feelings, just want to control each other, then this love is terrible, will only make people away from each other, not close.
If a love just wants to make the other person worse and worse, to show its importance, then this love will eventually become its own terminator, and you will have nothing.
He Lingyi was not reconciled to death, nor did he understand how to love others, but gave Dugu Jingyao a word, hoping to continue to borrow Dugu Jingyao's hand to destroy the Guangping King and Pearl.
If you don't get it, you ruin him, which is the embodiment of a person's desire to control things, which can be traced back to the experience of childhood, and the black hole of insecurity in the heart can never be filled, even if the lover only sees himself, will not see the feelings of the loved one.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="22" > Cui Caiping: Love is not asked</h1>
Many people say that Cui Caiping is very pitiful, she is the only woman who does not care about the King of Guangping, but loves the King of Guangping wholeheartedly. In fact, the pity of Cui Caiping is that she does not have the ability to love people and will not love.
Cui Caiping from the little girl, the first time she saw the King of Guangping, she liked this man, many years have passed, she has never changed her original intention. She did not consider the undercurrent of forces involved behind this marriage, but king Guangping saw it clearly and was ready to deal with it.
One married into the royal palace for the sake of true love, and the other had to marry because of the situation, and was wary of suppression everywhere.
In such a marriage, Cui Caiping undoubtedly can't get the sincerity of the Guangping King, but you will find that the Guangping King did not treat Cui Caiping harshly at the beginning, but Cui Caiping himself did not have any ability to love others. Even if king Guangping sat with her, she didn't plan to really understand king Guangping.
If you love someone but never want to know each other, if you don't try to understand each other, then this love is a farce of one person.
Cui Caiping loves the King of Guangping, but her love only stays in her own thoughts, she will ask the King of Guangping if she can love herself, but she has never thought about what kind of love the King of Guangping wants, what kind of life she wants. Therefore, at the instigation of her mother, she eventually suffered the consequences of herself and went mad for love with nothing.
The more humble the love, the less true love will be obtained, and the love that is sought will not have a positive result after all.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > Lonely JingYao: Only love can be obtained by hard work</h1>
Dugu Jingyao is a special one among women, she is more heroic than pearls, and she also has the temperament and self-confidence of surpassing the average woman at that time, but the difference in a thought makes her look down on herself.
For king Guangping, he saw He Lingyi as just a servant, and he saw that Cui Caiping was just a pawn installed by the Yang family in the palace, but he saw the lonely Jing Yao as a robe. What does it mean to be in love? It is a friendship that experiences life and death together.
In fact, the fact that Lonely Jingyao could make King Guangping look so different was already her superiority over He Lingyi and Cui Caiping, but she always believed that as long as she worked harder, she could get the love of King Guangping.
She loved King Guangping and knew that she was a woman who could help King Guangping achieve great things, but she ignored one thing, that is, when she proposed to marry into the palace and help King Guangping, King Guangping categorically refused. This shows that King Guangping did not want to use her love to complete himself, which was done by a gentleman. This also shows that king Guangping does not love her.
In the end, The lonely Jing Yao's love at first sight was only his own fall, not the King of Guangping. In the end, she married into the Guangping Palace, which was forced by the situation and it was pearls that helped her get out of trouble.
However, after marrying into the Guangping King's Palace, Dugu Jingyao was bent on getting the love of the King of Guangping, and took the life of the King of Guangping to threaten pearls to leave the palace. She thought that Pearl would leave the palace and never see King Guangping again, and as time passed, King Guangping would shift his gaze and fall in love with her.
When Pearl tearfully parted from the swaddling child, Lonely Jingyao also asked herself with chagrin whether she had done something wrong. Yes, she did do wrong, she was wrong, threatening Pearl with king Guangping's life. Just as she asked King Guangping to drink that cup of tea, she lost all her trust.
Therefore, two years later, when Pearl and king Guangping reunited and the truth came out, Dugu Jingyao left all her strength to King Guangping and left alone, which was her last pride, and she also did her true heart, which was the lone general that King Guangping first met.
Lonely Jing Yao's heart for King Guangping was no less than others, and she also agreed with King Guangping on many things, and her strategy was the same, but there was one thing she used with the wrong mind and took the road of destroying others like He Lingyi. He Lingyi's death brought her great shock, seeing how terrible it would be for a person to be paranoid about love.
Fortunately, she was not He Lingyi, and seeing clearly He Lingyi's paranoia also redeemed herself.
As long as you work hard, you can always gain, but only love is not necessarily, not what you can get with your efforts, this is a two-way rush, not a solo dance of one person.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="45" > Shen Pearl: Love is fulfilled without hesitation</h1>
For love, Shen Zhu is obsessed, if the Prince of Taihu, who is deeply loved in her heart, is not the King of Guangping, then what is the ending? Maybe she and king Guangping will be in love with each other, but in the end it will be difficult for her to be at peace.
The reason why king Guangping fell in love with Shen Pearl was because when he first saw Pearl, it was a very relaxed environment, there was no deception, no court fight, just two real people, words and things that did made King Guangping admire, is appreciation is recognition.
After Pearl confirmed that the person she had been looking for was the King of Guangping in front of her, and also eliminated the misunderstanding that the King of Guangping was an enemy, she opened the mode of truly loving the King of Guangping. Although Pearl is stubborn, her lover is still capable, and she knows that to love someone is to fulfill all that person has.
King Guangping was not only her pearl husband, but also the King of Guangping, the Grand Marshal of Terracotta Warriors, the Crown Prince, and the Emperor, who bore too much responsibility. And what the King of Guangping did was really something that Pearl appreciated, so Pearl thought about the King of Guangping everywhere, paved the way for the King of Guangping, and even worried that he could not do too many things for the King of Guangping.
Pearl and Dugu Jingyao do things to complete the King of Guangping, but the difference between them is that Pearl has no selfish heart and knows the real needs of the King of Guangping; Pearl and Dugu Jingyao are both women who like to take the initiative into their own hands, but their difference is that Pearl will not hurt anyone and satisfy themselves; Pearl and Lonely Jingyao are independent women, but their difference is that Pearl will not be strongly loved.
It is not difficult for people to be strong, and the beauty of adulthood, Pearl, King Guangping and Mo Yan sip are all people who can see clearly and transparently.
The highest level of love is to make people more and more beautiful, there is appreciation, there is help, there is perfection, there is a good person to accompany the behavior, the future can be expected.
(The pictures are all from the screenshots of the TV series "Datang Glory", if there is infringement, please contact to delete)