<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" > introduction:</h1>
They all said, "Feelings are mutual, and love is a matter of two people."
Oh, yes! Feelings need two people to maintain together, and love needs two people to go hand in hand.
Whether as a couple or as a couple, we can't just ask for it and not know how to reciprocate.
Of course, it is everyone's nature to take advantage, but it is also necessary to distinguish the occasion, what time should be occupied, and when should not be occupied.
Because there is no bargain in love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" > my city girlfriend</h1>
Liu Qi, 27, broke up with his girlfriend, who had been in love for two years, because his girlfriend's approach really made him feel disappointed and angry.
Two years ago, Liu Qi met his girlfriend at work, who was a recent college graduate, and as an old employee of the company, he took his girlfriend on a tour of the studio.
After the girlfriend joined the company, because she only knew Liu Qi alone in the company, and their desks were next to each other, the two of them were also familiar with each other.
After a period of time together, they both developed a good feeling for each other, so the two naturally developed into a romantic relationship.
Later, Liu Qi learned that her girlfriend is a local, her parents are working in state-owned enterprises, and as an only child, her parents are very good to her.
The girlfriend is very beautiful, the family conditions are good, and the education is not bad, which is simply a good opportunity for Liu Qi, who wants to take root in the big city!
But I definitely didn't fall in love with her because her family had money, I just thought she was cute and naïve, and at the same time a little arrogant, straightforward, and made people feel very comfortable.
When I got along with her, I felt that my whole person had become much more lively and cheerful, and when I first came into contact with her, it was indeed a little bit of interest.
But after two years with her, I found that I was really completely in love with her, and even thought about talking to her about marriage.
But when I told her what I thought, my girlfriend said she didn't want to get married yet.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="03" > urged to marry by parents</h1>
Because she felt that she was still young and wanted to play for two more years, yes, it was true that I was too anxious, because she was three years younger than me, so she repeatedly rejected me.
Of course, she didn't want me to go back to see my parents.
My hometown is rural, and from the city where I work, I need to drive a 5-hour highway, so whenever I celebrate the New Year's Festival, I go home alone.
Every time I came home, I was tortured by my parents and asked why my girlfriend didn't follow along, but I prevaricated every time.
Just say to her parents: "She is a reserved girl, and the family is also relatively strict, so it is inconvenient, you see her sooner or later, why rush for a while?"
With the slow passage of time, the 27-year-old Liu Qi was also urged to marry by his parents, because his parents gave Liu Qi harsh words.
"Look at the son of Uncle Wang's family next door, the family is still two years younger than you, and the children are now one year old, why are you still like this?" Nothing has changed. ”
"The girlfriend you talked about, is it unreliable in the end?" If it is not reliable, it is quick to divide it! You see you're all 27 years old. ”
"I've already discussed with your dad that if you don't bring a girlfriend home again, we're going to arrange for you to go on a blind date, or you won't come back, you watch!"
On the phone, Liu Qi just felt a pain in her eardrums, because her mother had come for real time, and she had already begun to get angry.
So after hanging up the phone, Liu Qi consulted with his girlfriend: "We have been talking for two years, you and I will go back to meet my parents!" Otherwise I'm afraid they won't let me go home. ”
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="04" > take his girlfriend home to see his parents</h1>
My girlfriend was silent at first, but the next day, she agreed, so we both drove home during the holidays.
But who knows, this time became Liu Qi and his girlfriend, the last trip.
Because when his girlfriend first arrived at Liu Qi's house, she was disgusted.
Because Liu Qi's family house is a small bungalow on the first floor, and next to it is the place where the chickens, ducks, cows and sheep are closed, so it seems to be a little dirty.
And Liu Qi also knows that after all, she is a person from a big city, and her own small bungalow is naturally inferior to her family's 200 square meters of large house, so she did not say anything.
But what made Liu Qi even more angry was still behind.
When eating, the stool where the girlfriend sits, she has to wipe the edges with a paper towel many times, not to mention the bowl, but also washed over and over again, the most excessive.
My girlfriend didn't even want to eat with my chopsticks, because she thought it would be dirty, and her parents had no choice but to go to the neighbor's house and borrow a pair of disposable chopsticks to come back to her.
After eating, she didn't dare to do anything, just sit where to play with the mobile phone, my mother also wanted her to help clean up the dishes, but called her twice.
She pretended not to hear, and then took out her headphones and put them on, and in the house, only the parents and sons were busy, and she was still looking down at the mobile phone.
Liu Qi really couldn't look at it anymore, so he went over to her and asked, "What's going on with you today?" What a nerve! Usually you, but not like this! ”
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="05" > terrible, let's break up! </h1>
The girlfriend replied, "I don't think there's anything wrong with that!" The first time I came to your house, I couldn't do anything! I hadn't done any of these things at home myself and didn't want to do them. ”
Liu Qi was speechless when he heard it, he was actually speechless, he really forgot that his girlfriend was a big city person, and he really couldn't compare with their rural people.
At this moment, Liu Qi found this girlfriend for himself, and felt the pain just now, yes! A girl in a big city, what can she do, except for high education, beautiful looks, and money.
What else would they do, and do you still expect them to cook for you? It was just kidding.
Obviously, the first time I met my parents, my girlfriend completely froze with her parents, and there was no good feeling left.
And the girlfriend is also a fearless look in the face of her boyfriend, because they are often noisy and noisy, so naturally it is like this.
So he didn't know what to say about his girlfriend for a while, and in the afternoon they both went back, and on the way back, Liu Qi was silent.
After sending his girlfriend home, he hugged his girlfriend, and his girlfriend did not resist, and after a while, Liu Qi turned and left.
Because he really wanted to break up with his girlfriend, after returning home, his mother also called and said, "Xiao Qi! Today's girl, you and your dad really didn't look at it. ”
"She should be Miss Qianjin, where can our family accommodate her?" Think about it for yourself! You're going to live with her, it's a lifetime! ”
"We both respect your choice."
After hanging up the phone, Liu Qi thought for a long time, and then finally picked up the phone and called his girlfriend: "Let's break up!" We are not suitable. ”
The girlfriend said for a moment, "Liu Qi, are you kidding me?"
"I'm not kidding, let's break up!"
"It's so good! You really have the kind of thing, put me to sleep, kick me away, you negative man. ”
"It's not a matter of sleep or no sleep, how did you treat my parents today, don't you know?"
"What's wrong with me, just because I don't help work, you're going to break up with me, it's really a joke, scumbag, you can't die." 」
Liu Qi hung up the phone and didn't want to pay attention to her, because he felt that she still didn't understand the reason for the matter, and kept pouring dirty water on others.
Then the girlfriend made several phone calls, scolded Liu Qi to the point of bloodshed, and asked his girlfriend to go to the company to spread his rumors.
Liu Qi reluctantly left his post, changed a city, and continued to start his life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="06" > Summary:</h1>
I think so! Today's young people, their concept of love has problems, they are just a whim, a sense of freshness for a while, never thought about it later.
They only want to live in the present, but they don't know how to look into the future, anyway, who is good-looking, who is beautiful, I will like him (her), why, because he (her) is handsome, beautiful, beautiful.
There is no other reason, it is so simple, I think she is beautiful, I like it, the rest is not considered, this is the contemporary young people's view of love.
Wake up! Boys and girls, the door is the right thing.
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