Recently, some parents have begun to be demonized again, and some people have reported "Aesop's Fables", saying that the content is too dark and will leave a great psychological shadow on the children.
The cause of the incident was that a parent saw a story in Aesop's Fables, telling the story of a crab strangling a snake friend with a bad heart. Because of this plot description, parents felt that the book was too dark, so they complained to the publisher.
The publishers could only apologize and said that they would make changes to some plots, but the parents were determined to demand a complete removal.
I have to say that in the face of such a wild parent, the publishing house can only choose to swallow, after all, this is a group of people who can take down the big IP "Diga Ultraman".
Count again, because of the parents reported that the works that were tragically removed from the shelves are countless, including the recent domestic animations "Assassin Wu 67" and "Under One Man". You have to say that the content here is a bit dirty and understandable, but even the young works such as "Bear Haunting", "Peppa Pig", and "Ye Luoli" are not spared. The most outrageous thing is that even Huang Zhong's skill icon in the game "Glory of the King" is not spared.
Sometimes I wonder, is the child really so vulnerable? I think the real vulnerability is the parents, because of the failure of their own education, and they are unwilling to admit their mistakes, so they must find something to come out and face the crime. But is this really good? Children who grow up in a windless and waveless environment, they really resist the cruelty of society in the future!
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > how to see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain</h1>
I remember a story written by the writer Lin Qingxuan:
One year, God was delighted to see the crops the farmers had planted bear fruit. But the farmer said to God, "For 50 years, I have not stopped praying for a single day, but I only hope that there will be no wind, rain, hail, drought, or insect plague every year." But no matter how much I prayed, I couldn't get my wish. ”
The farmer kissed God's feet and prayed, "Can you grant my request, for only one year, no heavy wind and rain, no scorching sun and drought, no insect plague?"
God said, "Well, next year, no matter what the other person does, you're going to get it."
The following year, because there were no natural disasters, the farmer's field produced many ears of wheat, twice as many as before, and the farmer was excited. Until autumn came, when the farmer was ready to harvest, he found that the ears of wheat were all shriveled and there were no good grains.
The farmer tearfully asked God, "What's going on?"
God told him, "Because your ears of wheat have avoided all the trials, you have become like this." For a grain of wheat, the grinding of wind and rain can make it grow better. ”
Nietzsche said, "The good fortune of life is to maintain mild poverty."
It is true that everyone wants a smooth life without wind and waves, but such ideas are unrealistic. There are no people in this world who are favored by fate, on the contrary, all those who are chosen by fate have gone through hardships to achieve great things. Parents are always wishful thinking to help their children avoid all risks, not knowing that this is just delaying the arrival of tribulations and depriving children of the right to grow.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" > we who came from the Beat generation still learned to grow in the stumbling</h1>
Since the 80s, it has been called the "Beat Generation", because people at that time were experiencing a big explosion of technology, from television and cars to the popularity of computers and the Internet. The post-80s generation witnessed the direction of this period of history, and was also the first person to indulge in it, and then it was crowned with the title of "Beat Generation".
When did the post-80s take off this title, it was because of the emergence of the post-90s, the post-90s became a "more collapsed generation", and the popularity of the Internet made this generation more addicted to virtuality. The post-90s are also waiting for the rise of the new generation of post-00s to get rid of their own fate of not being optimistic.
At the end of the day, it's not that the new generation can't do it, it's that the older generation won't let go. It is not so much that the child is afraid of being poisoned by various thoughts, but rather that the parents cannot let go of their own desire to dominate.
If the child does not listen to himself, then what is his hard work? This may be a true portrayal of many parents, who are beaten to the ground by the real society, and everything in the society is not in their control, so they retreat to the family in an attempt to establish an absolute sense of control in the family.
It's just that when the child grows up and is beaten by society, they want to return to the family, but you tell him: "Child, when you grow up, you should learn to carry it yourself." When you are so admonition, have you ever thought that although the child's body has grown, his psychology has long been trapped by you in childhood, which is the "giant baby" that you are trapped in the cage and raised by your own hands.
There is a kind of love called letting go. The eagle will push the child off the cliff with his own hands, because it knows that only after suffering can the eaglet truly grow. Their future belongs to the sky, so please let them fly freely.