Seeing the three-meter nomination for the Academy Award, coupled with the depiction of father-daughter affection, and Andy Lau's cross-cutting scenes, opened the taste of peppercorns.
Gentle narration, frame frame emotion, feeling that there is no superfluous person, no superfluous things, no superfluous words, no deliberate sensationalism, but let people immerse themselves in the flow. It should be the three sisters of kindness, or how can we meet so kindly after each other, it turns out that each of us is so kind and strong, and has experienced the neglect, rejection, control, and unlove of our own perspective, and we have a sincere warmth to people, which is also human nature.
The most touching thing is the parallel incident between the eldest sister and the father, because the father, the three half-sisters grew up in three cities, experiencing an incomplete family from childhood and the feelings brought about by it, in this case, as three sisters, how to complete their lives? So they are looking for reconciliation in life.
The movie depicts many fathers in their beautiful ways with others, the warmth to the clerks, aunts, and customers, does he know that he is not perfect for his three daughters? How did he brew these? He tried his best to follow up. Knowing this, I also carry out my life with the wounds caused by these.
Some people say that people are traumatic continuums, some people say that only you allow others to hurt you, the body knows the answer, when the emotional button is unintentionally lifted, the pain gushes out, how do we deal with the pulse that is everywhere and all the time, so go erupt, to ignore, to use spicy to anesthetize perception.
Later in the film, the eldest sister saw her father in the crowd of dragon dancers who turned back to her and smiled at her, saying, "Daddy, I don't complain, I miss you so much." "In the face of parents, places that do not match the mind, it is easy to breed resentment, not only parents, friends and colleagues love people, so what to do, as if you don't want to do this, as if you have to meet your own requirements to pass, that does not meet their own awkwardness can kill themselves." Try it, let love in. In the face of a person, there must be more than one emotion, think about the mood you want to have a good attitude towards the person, bring into the dark moment, can you dissolve it.
Ask your parents for approval, ask them for approval, and approve unconditionally; ask them to be satisfied, all-round satisfaction. Helpless parents flesh and blood emotional disposition shield a lot, so can not get, so distressed. Want them to take full care of your needs, but don't realize they have limited capabilities. The second sister Ruzhi's billiard career of more than ten years collided with her mother's sometimes arrogant self, shattering a ground, how to pick up this place, piece it together, not as complete as ever, in addition to the most perfect glue, the mother's full acceptance, but not everyone is lucky so, that no, how to continue? Looking for a little bit of love in your memory and brewing it yourself? Perhaps to admit this look, with wounds, invincible. No longer have to be understood and approved by parents, and don't think about changing your parents. Allow parents to be themselves, wish them happiness, and take charge of their own lives.
Andy Lau's combination of Zheng Xiuwen yyds, this time a warm combination, let people feel appropriate.
Ren Xianqi's appearance is as sunny as ever. Everyone's forehead is engraved with four words "I am important". We look for needs, say there needs me, which is given in this movie, not so much that there needs me, but that I need a place that needs me. It's not a place that needs me, it's that I need it to grow, to understand, this is the fulcrum of life, is everyone going to have this, is there a fulcrum to survive? So, how lucky are people who find their preferences and can settle for this in this life.
Look at the world with all your emotions, it's your homework, my homework, after self-study, to fill the void. Say well, with sufficient energy, have time, use emotional punctuation carefully, let you hear the dialogue you want to hear, let you feel the security and love you desire, no dependence, self-burden, not bad.