Reading The Way to Happiness, I will try to record 5 small things that I feel happy about every day.
Here are five things today:
1. Try to express some sentences in English (rather than translating Chinese into English), such as this sentence: write some things in English (English and alphbets are so beautiful sometimes).
2. Do whatever you think of, not because of and procrastination, even if it's just one thing.
3. Make a list of must-do things every day (25 minutes per thing) and hope you can do it yourself.
4. Sold books (108-26=82), bought KFC, took the courier, saved milk tea, and did a lot of things at once.
5. The video gathering of the study group → communication, it is really meaningful!
In fact, today's writing seems to be a little procrastinating, at least 8 minutes of delay, there is no need to do it, do it attentively, and wait for 25 minutes to say other things, in other words: only this 25 minutes can write, and then want to write may not have such a state of mind and binding force. Therefore, when it's time to write or do something else, be sure to be attentive enough. Externally, control what you want to do, try not to do it first; internally, restrain yourself from thinking of doing other things, and finish the current thing first.
At present, there are many good conditions: single, finally back to the state of no care, objectively can do their own thing, then you must cherish the current state, after all, there will not necessarily be in the future; do not rush to find a girlfriend, because you see the truth and nature of the intimate relationship, at least you think you see clearly; there is time, there is time, or fucking time!
In terms of motivation, the process is the result, do it well first, and other things can be left for reflection and meditation. In short, it is certainly not for others to see, or even for oneself. It can be considered that this essence is a selfish act, in the short term, in order to make myself full, comfortable, and happy; in the long run, it is still to become a better person, which will actually make myself a little better, because I will still like myself to become better.
It's been almost nineteen minutes since I wrote this, but 25 minutes is not a lot. Back to the topic of time, the time to write still passes quite quickly, and relatively speaking, I still enjoy the process of writing, which is very good. If you feel like 25 minutes a day is too little writing time, that's a good thing.
Relatively meaningful: find the things that identify with it will still be quite enjoyable, with the improvement of ideological understanding, with the action, the overall will become better and better.
The so-called workplace experience of this half year (in fact, you don't need to add the so-called, that is, the workplace experience), at least let me recognize and reconfirm, such a job is still quite timely, and now I feel that I earn less or have various problems, so can I improve under the premise that the two conditions of "sufficient time" and "relative freedom" can be maintained? There are too many unknowns in the future, come on.