In "My View of Reading", Professor Zhu Yongxin said: "What a child first sees, that thing will become a child's totem, and the secrets of childhood are far from being revealed, and the secrets of reading are far from being revealed." ”
Although the current picture book recommendations are scattered, it is necessary to give the best to the child. Today we will not talk about how to choose a good picture book, first look at how to accompany the child to read a good picture book.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >1. Create an atmosphere of comfort</h1>
The child's state must be peaceful and pleasant before reading the picture book. The premise is to do the things well: drink water, eat, go to the bathroom, turn off electronic devices, etc., and then sit at the desk or sofa with your child. How calm and calm the adult's heart is, how happy and free the child is. This helps children open the door to their imagination in the story of the picture book and ask more whys.
If the child is angry or bored at the time, it is better to sit down next to him, open a picture book that he likes, and speak slowly, the child's small emotions will disappear at once, and the mood will become better.
At our house, when I was busy, I said, "Let's read!" "The child will immediately appear in front of me with the book of their choice!"
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >2. Ask more extensibility open questions</h1>
This is very necessary for children's imagination to cultivate, children like to talk about a picture book over and over again, or start from their favorite places, it doesn't matter, this is a good phenomenon! Because the part that the child likes is exactly where the child wants to dig, he imagines it over and over again, and each time it finds it interesting. At this time, we parents may wish to ask questions from multiple angles.
For example, Miyasita's "I Am a Tyrannosaurus Rex" series subverts the stereotype of Tyrannosaurus rex's violent cruelty, and I often ask children: "Why didn't Tyrannosaurus rex eat the pterosaur?" "Why do the little flatheads like Tyrannosaurus rex?" "If you were a loving mother dragon, would you 'cheat' on the Tyrannosaurus rex?" ......
The questions are open-ended, children will slowly learn to think deeply, there is no fixed answer, believe in the same picture book, each question will have a different or deeper harvest.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >3. It's important to express likes</h1>
Children like a type of character because they have the same traits, they feel clear but the vocabulary is vague or do not know how to express, help the child, find the meaning and feelings he wants to express, use some words to express and tell him, "Baby, I think he is very brave and kind, willing to help others, I like it, what about you?" ”
Expressed likes, and other conclusive expressions, the child will have more pleasant heuristic experiences. "The more truth, goodness and beauty he saw in his childhood, the more truth, goodness and beauty he saw in his heart, and he would also become a person of truth, goodness and beauty." This will help the child to form a power orientation of good qualities in the mind, which will also prompt him to develop good habits in the future.
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Parents don't underestimate the power of children to listen to the same story and see the same story over and over again, haha, help them think deeply and finely process at the same time, they will also show their creativity. The next time you ask your child to tell him the story or picture book he has heard repeatedly, you will definitely be surprised by his memory and creativity, and praise him, which will make your child feel more accomplished and confident.
When the child can't say it, don't be in a hurry, you can give a little hint or say it together; even if the child says it's wrong, it doesn't matter, don't interrupt him, smile and listen, he may have new imagination and creation; when the child finishes, review the difference together, the child will find where he is different from the book, he made up a good story, and sincerely appreciates the child's creation and imagination.
Picture books are created by masters who understand children, but children know children best and understand themselves best.
The number of words in picture books is relatively small, and many of them need to be extended by parents to explain to their children. A thousand readers will have a thousand Hamlets. Different ways of speaking, different emphasis on speech, and different angles of speech will produce different effects. Seemingly simple and small picture books, but also really test the patience, carefulness, keen insight and delicate expression ability of parents.
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