After running more than half a million kilometers and riding ten motorcycles, twenty-four years later, Guo Gangtang finally fulfilled his wish and found his son.
However, after hugging and crying, it made Guo Gangtang feel bitter in his heart. The son who had been separated for twenty-four years, the son who had been abducted and sold for twenty-four years, was willing to stay with his adoptive parents.
To be precise, it was to stay with the couple, who bought him as a son for six thousand dollars!
Guo Gangtang could only respect his son's choice, and in addition to saying that his son was kind, he also sincerely said: I hope to be a relative in the future.
Twenty-four years of searching for a son, Guo Gangtang's never give up, let people tears of sympathy. Twenty-four years ago, he disregarded the walls of his family, borrowed foreign debt, and embarked on the road to find a son. Weathered by wind and frost, wind and food, Guo Gangtang wrote a big father's love.
The son found it, but he didn't really get it. Guo Zhen was willing to stay with his adoptive parents, so that those who sympathized with Guo Gangtang were very uncomfortable and scolded him for "confessing to being a thief as a father."
Why would Guo Zhen be willing to stay with his adoptive parents? I think these three reasons are inseparable.
01 The loss of remembering makes him unable to love his biological parents
Human memory, when the fetus is born, remembers the mother's heartbeat. After birth, from January to June, he will remember the gestures and sounds of his parents holding him, but the time to remember is quite short. At the age of three, you will remember things from a few weeks ago, but if you are too long, you will not be able to remember.
The human body really reaches the memory stereotype, and can remember things for a long time, until it is five or six years old.
When Guo Zhen was lost, he was two and a half years old. After that, he was bought home by his adoptive parents for six thousand dollars. At first, he remembered the appearance of his biological parents, but with the day and night care of his adoptive parents, he held him in the palm of his hand, and after a period of time, everything about his biological parents had been forgotten.
Needless to say that those abducted children, even those who stay behind, if they can't see their parents once or twice a year, they will definitely be estranged from their parents, and their affection will naturally become weaker and weaker.
Guo Zhen, who has been raised by his adoptive parents for twenty-four years, has been deeply imprinted on this pair of buyer parents since the moment his memory began to be fixed. He just remembered: This is my parents!
Compared with Guo Gangtang, this father who suddenly appeared, in addition to the inheritance of blood, emotionally, has been pitifully small, and even, may have disappeared.
The lack of memory made him unaware of the existence of this biological father. Twenty-four years, I have not seen my biological parents, I have not accompanied him, how can he suddenly love?
02 The superiority of the existing family environment makes him reluctant to give up
Because he was a boy, Guo Zhen was spoiled by his family since he was a child. Not only the care of the adoptive parents, but also the careful care of the two sisters. He is loved by thousands of people, and he does not have to suffer.
After graduating from university, he became a teacher. His adoptive parents bought him a house and his sister bought him a car. Only twenty-six years old, he is already a family with a house and a car, and he is many times stronger than countless ordinary people.
Modern people should have, in the family of adoptive parents, Guo Zhen has. If he returned to Guo Gangtang's side, what would he get? Are there still these? Not necessarily, because back in his native family, he is not an only son, and he has two younger brothers who have not yet met.
As a father, Guo Gangtang, can not always favor one over the other, just for his Guo Zhen, and go to buy a car and buy a house, right?
Compared with the existing family, is Guo Zhen willing to give up everything? It's not easy to do.
03 The contrast between the two sides of the family made him prohibitive
In the family of his adoptive parents, Guo Zhen is the only one. When they were a hundred years later, all that was left was Guo Zhen's. No matter how bad it is, Guo Zhen also has the care of two good sisters. Such a day, let people think, will only feel smooth sailing.
On the other hand, what about returning to Guo Gangtang's side? On this side of the family, Guo Zhen not only has to face his biological parents, but also faces two younger brothers who have never met.
Guo Zhen, who has been used to being the only one in the family since he was a child, can he really get along with his family and integrate? I think, Guo Gangtang can't guarantee it, right?
Based on the above three reasons, it is not surprising that Guo Zhen is willing to stay with his adoptive parents.
But no matter what, Guo Zhen has fallen into a dilemma, returning, some people say that he is cold-blooded, disregarding the grace of nurturing; not returning, some people say that he is not filial piety, selfish, and recognizes thieves as fathers.
Legally speaking, Guo Zhen does not have the responsibility to support his adoptive parents, and he wants to support his biological parents. His kindness and filial piety to his adoptive parents is naturally repulsive. After all, it was a guilty person, and it was the culprit that made Guo Gangtang and his wife suffer for twenty-four years.
No buying, naturally no turning. Those who buy children impose a lifetime of pain on others, separating countless families. The sins they have created are absolutely not worthy of sympathy. Letting them go to the old age and let them accept the punishment they deserve is a comfort to countless broken families, and it is also the best shock in the law.
Now, the person who buys the child, not only does not have to be punished, but can also die a good death, is it the sadness of society, or the ridiculousness of the law?
Guo Gangtang was lucky that he finally saw his son in his lifetime. Knowing that his son had no worries about food and clothing, he chose to forgive, to forgive the buyer who had separated his father and son for twenty-four years, and to be a relative.
But what about parents who can't get their children back? What about the children whose lives and deaths are unknown? How easy are you to forgive a sinner who bought a child, and how many broken families are there?
Forgiveness is a kind of open-mindedness and a kind of great love, but bottomless forgiveness is connivance in disguise!
All the hustle and bustle in the world is profitable, and all the hustle and bustle in the world is profitable. The terrible thing about profit is that it can erase all family affection.
If the adoptive parents' family is poor and poor, Guo Zhen will live better than die, I don't know if he still has the courage to stay, will Guo Gangtang still forgive?