Recently I saw a saying that goes like this: "The older I get, the more I feel that tolerance is more important than freedom", I was deeply touched when I saw this sentence, and I am at this moment in the impulsive and willful time of young people.
To be honest, it is difficult to pay attention to those moments in life that grab the limelight and compete for the topic, as if the idea is blurted out by yourself, and I have never thought about how to really restrain my untimely thoughts, nor any processing and thinking, nor the thoughtful consideration of the consequences, all the words seem to be only for the situation at that time unconsciously said.
I think about it now and feel very afraid, because those worthless and even ignorant words, words that hurt others, they all come from my mouth, and I myself have no self-awareness, and I only blindly feel that the words spoken are very reasonable. Maybe it was in that environment that my clumsiness was highlighted, but unfortunately I was in this situation many times and it was difficult to change this almost confused idea.
I have broken my moral bottom line again and again for those insignificant little things, and I have broken the bottom line of tolerance without any concern, and now I think I have been confused for so many years. Whether it is to tolerate others or to tolerate oneself, it is still a laborious and laborious task. In the past, I was pursuing freedom, so it was difficult to have a chance to suddenly have an epiphany, and indeed reading is a thing that can make people grow, a book, a sentence, a word that has never been seen before, maybe it really opens up another cognitive world for you.
"Freedom", many people have been pursuing two words in this life, including me, money freedom, housing freedom, work freedom, love freedom, hot pot freedom, milk tea freedom, no matter what kind of freedom, all are people are pursuing beauty.
Freedom, think about it, it feels very beautiful, tolerance is indeed very important, but if it is just to pursue some dispensable things and have to tolerate, as if tolerance makes people become more unduly people, this feeling is very strange, if a person becomes tolerant, freedom seems to fall into the bottomless pit, there is no day, but if a person is completely free, and seems to be able to do something strange that they did not expect, there is no way to tolerate, so to say that tolerance is important or freedom is important, That's hard to say.
If I want to choose, I naturally want to deal with both of them properly, so I thought of "free tolerance", both freedom and tolerance, killing two birds with one stone, it is quite simple to say, but the problem is how to coordinate the relationship between the two.
If I suddenly encounter a tricky thing, while telling me to restrain myself, not to be impulsive, to warn me how those experienced experiences can be so easy to break, this is tolerance, on the other hand, tell me not to be too old-fashioned ideas to lose the motivation to innovate, to tell me to play a free imagination, to create something different, this situation is very dilemma, this time think, how to follow the rules and create novel ideas, So there is the freedom to imagine and dig out new things in the previous experience, not only to be free to match, but also to play their own nature without too much, when you think about it, you feel that your eyes are bright and your mood is also comfortable. It is as if you find a territory in your mind that you have never set foot in, until you find it, you feel as vast as the sea.
The tolerance of freedom is to be very comfortable digesting those things that are not taken for granted, things have two sides, and it is difficult to say that it does not have its third side, so you can always look for this so-called difference, the so-called third side, and perhaps this very different point is just worth applying to all kinds of unbalanced freedom and tolerance.
This is my little epiphany today, a wonderful epiphany, of course, this topic is not necessarily a free topic, maybe it needs your tolerance to forgive my humble opinion.