
In a marriage, choosing the right person is really critical. If we want to have a good and happy marriage, what aspects do we have to look at?
01 Whether the two are in love
Love is a deep affection for a person or a thing, an increase in things, and two people who love each other are happy in their hearts. Being with the person you love is relaxing and happy. Only sincerity is the best, and only when true heart is there, love can last.
02 Whether the same values are the same
Values are based on people's certain thinking senses and make cognition, understanding, judgment or choice, that is, people identify things, argue whether it is right or wrong, in layman's terms, whether your method of handling problems and the way of looking at them are consistent.
But the difference between the three views is not that you read, I play games, and the difference between the three views is that I think you read books is a false high, and you think that I play games without thinking of making progress.
03 Is there a consistent view of love
The concept of love is people's fundamental views and attitudes on the issue of love, and its content mainly includes: what is love, the essence of love, and the position of love in social life and personal life, mate selection criteria, how to deal with lost love, etc. Two people whose scientific research proves that their views on love are several times higher than those who have a different view of love when they are together.
Fourth, whether there is a consistent view of the family
The concept of family is the cornerstone of marriage, and what kind of family concept there is, there will be what kind of family. Family values are a kind of opinion, attitude or belief that an individual has for family affairs, and it is also a criterion for evaluating the meaning and purpose of the family and the ideal family, which deeply affects the decision of individuals to run family life and family-related affairs. Is the family most focused on equality or male authority? Does the family accept the new or stick to the stereotype? These are all manifestations of the family view. This is also a major criterion for choosing a mate.
What are your criteria for choosing a mate? Feel free to comment below.
Finally, I wish you all a lifetime with your crush.
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Text/Fang Yi
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