The Japanese movie "Only GlowIng There" tells this story:
Duff was originally the head of an explosion worker at a quarry, but after witnessing the death of a co-worker in an accident, he blamed himself for fleeing the quarry and coming to a remote town.
Here, he drank heavily every day, living in guilt all the time, once in the game hall, he met a simple little, after chatting for a while, the invited him home for dinner.
It was here that he met the nightclub girl Chisa...
Qianxia is the sister of the, gentle and kind.
Due to the same state of mind, Duff and Qianxia have a good feeling for each other, but after spending some time together, Duff mistakenly enters a nightclub one night drunk and finds Qianxia selling himself there...
Not only that, Duff later found that Qianxia's relationship with the boss of the asshole brother was also ambiguous.
Duff was very hurt and despised Qianxia, and the conversation between the two people in the nightclub was even more unhappy.
The depressed Duff, who originally planned to live alone for a lifetime, repeatedly invited him to return to work by the owner of the stone farm, but he was dismissed sharply.
It's just that, how many lonely nights, he can always catch the breath left by Qianxia in the room, he doesn't believe that Qianxia is the kind of girl who is willing to fall...
The next day, Duff, who couldn't help it, came to Qianxia's house again, and the moment he knocked on the door, he also discovered Qianxia's bitter secret!
This Japanese film is very sadistic, but it is very thick and warm, and I think it is suitable for every man, especially men who are still growing up, because it will give us the two concepts of life of "responsibility" and "bosom".
The theme of the story revolves around two wounded lonely hearts, Duff because of the tragic death of his co-workers, escaped to a strange town, fatherless and motherless, although he has a sister who cares about him, but the empty letters obviously cannot fill the big hole in his inner loneliness and desolation.
Or providence, it was at this time that he met the same lonely Qianxia.
Qianxia seems to have a complete family, with a father, a mother, and a younger brother, but it is the "burden" of these families that has created Qianxia's suffering.
The father suffered from an unspeakable illness, the mother was weak and irresponsible, and the younger brother was full of anger and did not have the slightest responsibility, and he ran into trouble outside, and he also asked her to exchange her body for protection.
In order to maintain this stormy home, she went to the factory to kill cuttlefish during the day (temporary workers only worked for three days), and at night she could only go to nightclubs to sell herself.
This loneliness in her heart was impossible to communicate with her family, and it was not until The appearance of Duff that she was comforted, and the two began to heal and heal each other.
This movie is actually more suitable for female friends, because it will make many girls better understand men and distinguish the concept of "love and non-love" in mate selection.
After Learning the identity of the woman in the Qianxia Nightclub, Duff also taunted out of instinct, but the subsequent development made him unable to forget the girl.
The sorrow of Qianxia, the gentleness of Qianxia, the responsibility of Qianxia... The merits of Qianxia, in Duff's case, make up for all her "depravity".
Through the asshole brother, he knew the reason why Qianxia was committed to the boss, out of the responsibility of love, he found the boss, even if he was beaten, he asked him not to pestering Qianxia anymore, because he could not give Qianxia that "responsibility".
The boss's fascination with Qianxia is only a physical vent.
In order to let Qianxia not go to the nightclub to work, Duff even stepped out of his inner bondage, agreed to the invitation of the owner of the stone farm, and was willing to go into the mountain again, to work, to take responsibility.
In other words, it was the responsibility that made him choose to get out of this pain, and at the same time, it was also the love for Qianxia that healed himself.
Another name of this movie that I prefer: "Gang Brother Is Only There handsome glow"
Speaking of which, what kind of man is worth trusting? I don't think it's for the purpose of giving your family protection like a rich boss in exchange for the pleasure of the flesh.
This kind of male and female love is not reciprocal, one side is venting, the other side is humiliated, and when the youth dissipates, the girl has no exchange chips.
The love of Duff is thick, and he loves the heart of Qianxia, and this love is out of the protective instinct of men for women's love. Even if he saw the countless sore side of Qianxia, the result was only the deepening of this love.
Although he can't give Qianxia's family "protection" and give more money like his boss, he is willing to go back to the mountain for Qianxia and pick up this responsibility, isn't it enough?
And this responsibility is exactly what Qianxia needs, and it is also what every girl needs...
Of course, in the real world, everyone's needs are different. After talking about responsibility and love, in fact, I want to say only one sentence in this article: In this world, most people are not easy to live, and they should not hurt each other anymore.
There is a passage in Tolstoy's Anna Karenina that happy people are all alike, and unhappy people have their own misfortunes.