Who says the more we grow up, the lonelier we are, we are just lonely but not alone

There is a song in the movie "Bashan Night Rain", which used to be a song that I was obsessed with: I am a dandelion seed, no one knows my happiness and sadness, my father and mother gave me a small umbrella to let me float in the vast world, and the small umbrella took me to fly, flying...

When I was a child, I didn't understand that movie, but the little girl Juanzi and the song were deeply imprinted in my heart. Without her mother alone, she was looking for the little girl who had never seen her father and sneaked onto the boat. Although she is lonely, Juanzi is not alone when the ship has a kind police officer Lao Wang, an upright captain and a political commissar to help her.

Juanzi sang the song in the cabin: I am a dandelion seed... Come and find her dad. In that special era, people still had kindness and justice in their hearts, and even the "revolutionary young general" Liu Wenying was also inspired by everyone and was determined to rescue Juanzi and her father Qiushi.

Qiu Shi, who was escorted on the ship, was lonely, and although he was accompanied by Liu Wenying and Li Yan, he did not even have the courage to comfort the apricot blossoms, and could only look at the goddess peak on the shore in a daze. He said to Liu Wenying: You are the real prisoner, you are a spiritual prisoner. You don't feel how lonely you are in the crowd, no one fits in with you, no one dares to talk to you, and everyone is wary of you. Although Liu Wenying has an incomparably glorious status as a young revolutionary general, she is lonely and pitiful in spirit.

The apricot blossom girl who was sold to pay off her debts felt that her life was hopeless, lonely and miserable and jumped into the river, and it was Qiu Shi who saved her and enlightened her with her own experience. So that the apricot blossom girl understands that life is more bitter than sweet, to have their own beliefs and pursuits, and finally decided to go ashore at the next stop.

At the end of the movie, we also see that the escorted Qiu Shi is not alone. With the help of everyone's cooperation, he took his daughter Juanzi and got off the boat halfway and rushed to the beautiful future of this father and daughter together.

In the era when we were born, many families were dual-career workers, and during the day, parents were busy going to work, had no time to manage their children, ate at night and had no entertainment, and went out early to sleep. We children can only rely on the school teacher to manage, and between leaving the house and the school is a vacuum where no one cares about us.

We were running and playing on the road, a bunch of happy kids. As soon as the door closes when I go home, I am a lonely little fart. Lack of communication with parents, there is no spiritual communication between children, only when reading books will not feel lonely. Unfortunately, I still read less, many books have not been understood, if there is a teacher to teach how to refine and summarize the meaning of the book.

When I was a child, I always felt that no one understood me and understood my thoughts, and although I had relatives around, I still felt lonely, which may be the feeling of "saying sorry for new words". When I grow up, I know that it is a stage on the road to growth, no big deal, I may still have a sense of loneliness in my heart, but we still have responsibilities and responsibilities, and we are not alone.