What is the process of growing up? Maybe you will say, isn't growing up a growth process from baby to adult? How simple! Yes, if you explain it from the physiological process alone, the interpretation of growing up is that people's bodies gradually grow, people's age gradually increases, we say that generally more than 20 years old, that is, the real sense of growing up.
But is it really just an increase in age when you really grow up? Not really! The real meaning of growing up, in addition to mastering basic life skills, also requires mental maturity, the ability to think independently, to bear, to face, to solve things.
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Yang Suo of Xinyang, Henan Province, is a living example, he was called "China's first lazy man" by netizens, and at the age of 23, he starved himself to death.
Yang Suo's death, in the final analysis, is his 23-year-old age, physiologically, can be summarized as an adult, but he has not grown up in the true sense, and does not have a sense of responsibility for the individual, society, and even life.
The two words "grow up" are not even isolated.
Growing up is an irreversible process, and your parents will not protect you in your infancy forever. You need to learn to accept all kinds of pressures and hurts from society and relationships, and you need to learn to shake hands with the world, learn to reconcile with yourself, and then grow up fearlessly.
The real growth is that the more you grow up, the lonelier you become.
Because as you get older, you will find that after you go out of school and enter the society, your circle of friends will shrink smaller and smaller, and the only people left may be three or two confidants. Because you know the preciousness of time, and you also know the meaning of co-frequency resonance. At this time, you are lonely on the surface, but spiritually rich.
The real growth is that you can control your emotions.
Less of a young man, more of a calm and wise. When the same thing happens, you who really grow up will have more patience to analyze and balance, not to be happy with things, not to be sad with yourself, not to be confused with your heart and not trapped in feelings.
True growth is when you accept the world and accept yourself.
The world is full of injustice and imperfection, but that's what it is. What we need to learn is to accept the imperfections of the world, find a balance that suits us in unfairness, and do our best to change things themselves. Or accept yourself, recognize your own abilities, and change your attitude toward things.
In the process of growing up, who has not learned to be strong while being injured; losing and gaining at the same time? Friends, please don't refuse to grow up. We enjoy loneliness, we enjoy growth, we grow up in loneliness, and we go to perfection in loneliness.