Text / Yang Wenliang
Help people to have a degree.
Doing something and not doing something, helping people is the same, to help some people and not to help.
Not all the help has to be done, not all people have to help.
Now there are fewer and fewer people who understand gratitude, for the sake of benevolence and morality, or the reputation of a "good person" on the lips of others, helping people to help themselves to be imprisoned, losing their lives is not a minority, the icing on the cake is everywhere, the snow sends charcoal in the world, the world is cold, people's hearts are sad, and the only sun and people's hearts in the world cannot be looked at directly.
I analyze people who don't understand gratitude, and there are probably two different psychological states:
1. Psychological darkness.
Thinking that you are taking advantage of him, that you have been blessed by you is also deserved, and over time, it becomes taken for granted.
2. Ask for it without limits.
Greed, no matter how much you give him, no matter how good you are, you will never be able to satisfy his greed, so you will never be grateful.
Therefore, I suggest that modern people re-read the stories of the primary school textbook "Mr. Dongguo and the Wolf" and "The Farmer and the Snake", because there are many people in the heart of the modern human wolf. After reading it, those who do good deeds must understand the principle of helping others to have a degree, and those who do not understand gratitude must also understand the shameless and pathetic nature of the wolf's heart and snake venom.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" > the story of Mr. Dongguo and the Wolf</h1>
Mr. Dong Guo and the wolf
One day, Mr. Dongguo drove a donkey with a pocket of books on his back to a place called "Zhongshan Kingdom" to seek an official position. A wolf swooped up to him and pleaded, "Sir, I am now being chased by a hunter, please hide me in your pocket, and I will repay you well in the future." ”
After a while, the hunter chased after him, found that the wolf was missing, and asked Mr. Dongguo, "Did you see a wolf?" Where did it go? Mr. Dongguo said, "I didn't see the wolf, and the wolf may have escaped from another road." ”
The hunter chased him in another direction, and Mr. Dongguo released the wolf. Unexpectedly, the wolf howled and said to Mr. Dongguo, "Now that I am very hungry, you will do a good deed again, let me eat you." With that, the wolf pounced on Mr. Dong Guo with his teeth and claws.
At this time, a farmer passed by with a hoe, and Mr. Dongguo hurriedly pulled him aside and asked the farmer to judge. However, the wolf denied that Mr. Dongguo had saved his life.
The old farmer did not believe that the pocket could hold a wolf, so he asked Mr. Dongguo and the wolf to demonstrate it again, so Mr. Dongguo put the wolf back into the bag.
The peasant tightened his pockets to keep the wolf from coming out.
The old farmer said to Mr. Dongguo, "You are so confused when you talk about kindness to wolves. ”
With that, he picked up his hoe and beat the wolf to death.
< h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" > the story of The Farmer and the Snake</h1>
Farmer and snake
A farmer saw a hibernating snake in the cold winter, mistakenly thought it was frozen, picked it up, carefully carried it into his arms, and warmed it with his body.
The snake slowly regained consciousness and bit the farmer hard with its sharp poisonous fangs.
When the farmer was dying, he said with remorse: "I was kind enough to save you, so why do you want to take revenge?" ”
The snake said, "Don't forget I'm a snake," and then walked away without looking back.
The farmer was full of regret, and before dying, he sighed: "I have mercy on the bad guys and deserve to be punished." ”
Author: Yang Wenliang, also known as Songlin, self-media person, Internet marketing opinion leader, director, screenwriter, China's first batch of Internet celebrity mentors, founder of the Internet Creator Association.