Mr. Dong Guo and the wolf

The story of Mr. DongGuo and the wolf is well known. We often laugh at Mr. Dongguo's "no distinction between good and evil" and "the benevolence of women", but we often play the role of Mr. Dongguo unconsciously in real life.

Let's start with the story. When Mr. Dongguo faced the hungry wolf being tracked by the hunters, he knew that the wolf was harmful, but he was touched by the wolf's bitter plea, and he couldn't help but feel compassion and help the wolf escape the hunter's pursuit. After the hunter left, the hungry wolf who thought he had survived the difficulties revealed his fierce nature and tried to morally kidnap Mr. Dongguo: Since you helped me once, I am now about to starve to death, you might as well be a good person to the end, help me again, let me eat my stomach! At this time, Mr. Dongguo regretted that it was too late, and he could only fight with the wolf. Fortunately, the old farmer who encountered the passerby finally beat the hungry wolf to death and rescued Mr. Dongguo.

In our daily life, we often encounter things that are deceived or deceived. For example, the "white-eyed wolf" in the workplace. When it is at a disadvantage or a low point, low eyebrows are pleasing to the eye, try your best to show weakness and please in front of you, if you have no ability to know people, look at its superficial pity and selflessly lend a helping hand, and even unguarded it, it is likely to become a ladder and be trampled. The story of Colleague A is an example. He did a lot of things for his men, gave opportunities, and taught them a lot of things. But when the leader of the unit was adjusted, the subordinates who had been promoted to a certain position by him turned to the new leader. There is nothing wrong with people seeking their own development in the jianghu, but the terrible thing is to step on the shoulders of others and climb up. Because of his initial frankness, he did not defend his men much, and his men knew a lot about him. When the workplace changes, these undefended things have become the biggest harm to him. There is no doubt that his men betrayed a lot of his information in order to climb up. His men collapsed at the new leader's place, and his former subordinates, the weak, naturally became his successors. Later, when summarizing this experience, A often lamented that he had met a "white-eyed wolf".

"White-eyed wolf" is hateful, but I think that A's own ability to see people is not bad. We often say that we should help others, but the premise of helping people is to see if the person you are helping is worthy of your help. There is an old saying that "bowl Meeen, fight rice revenge", not all good intentions can reap good results. Walking in the rivers and lakes, if you want to be unharmed, on the one hand, you must have the ability to fight the sword and go to the end of the world, on the other hand, you must learn to see people and protect yourself. Mr. Dongguo's stupidity lies in knowing that wolves are bad, and they still have to lend a helping hand, invisibly aiding and abetting abuse!