Today's children are basically a family of adults around a child. Grandparents are spoiled. Mom and Dad are in pain like babies! When they say anything, they will basically be satisfied with them.
Therefore, the children are very happy now. At home a lot of toys, want to play that play that play that. If you go out, if some children want to play with their own toys, it is impossible, not even to look at it.
Each of us will have something we like, but we won't necessarily be willing to take it out and share it with others. Sharing is a virtue, and in the process of sharing, children can not only learn to think from the perspective of others, but also be of greater help to their social skills. So how can we make children willing to share with their friends?
1. Encourage children to take turns using toys during play
If two or more children want a toy and your child refuses to share it, use the trick that kindergarten teachers often use – take turns.
For example, children want to play with a certain ball, let the children take turns to play together, see who has the highest racket, you will find that the children can play happily together in an instant, is this not what we encourage children to share the effect they want to achieve?
2. Give your child some time to buffer
In the park, many children like to play slides, swings, etc., when your children are playing, other children also want to play, you want your children to come down and let other children play for a while or want your children to take turns playing with other children, when the children refuse, what should you do?
At this time, do not force the child to come down, and give the child a certain buffer time. For example, tell the child: "You have been playing on the swing for a long time, and the mother pushes you 20 times, and then we let the child play 20 times, and the mother pushes you 20 times." "Children will be more willing to accept such new games."
3. Teach children to share
Let the child become the protagonist of their own toys, when the child introduces the characteristics of their own toys to the little friends, the essence is a very important starting point for the child to learn to share, and soon the children will be happy to play together, new friendships are established, children play together, friendship and cooperation are better exercised in the description and display of the children's sharing of toys.
Finally, Tianbang Elite Youpei suggested that parents should share on the basis of their children's willingness, rather than forcing their children to give up what they like, otherwise in the long run, children will become giving up on what is important to them.
Xiaopi Big World Season 3 Episode 5 "I Picked Up and Returned to Me", learned with Xiaobu and Xiaopi to share with children.