Recently, a period of Wuhan University opened a "love psychology lecture" full of popularity
The video caused heated discussion among netizens, and many netizens laughed and said that "I have never been so active in class in my life."
The love class had people hanging all over the windows
On the evening of October 17, the "Love Psychology Lecture" held at Wuhan University was crowded with students. It is understood that 50 minutes before the teacher's lecture, the classroom was already full.
Source: Beijing News reported
The classroom can not be crowded, there are girls from the window into, this positive move caused a lot of "sensation" in the classroom, the students sighed loudly together, with everyone's exclamation, the female students "bright" their own small bench, so attentive, naturally indispensable everyone warm applause, and then, successively many male students also entered the classroom from the window, seriously "make up lessons".
Image source: Wuhan University students shoot videos
Xu, who shot the video, said: "Because in this beautiful year of college, students have a thirst for love, but they may not know enough about the knowledge of love." Xu also said that because it was the first floor, the later students came in through the window, and after the teacher reminded the students to pay attention to safety, there was no more window rolling.
It is understood that Yu Feng, the lecturer of "Psychology of Love", is a professor, head of the department and doctoral supervisor of the Department of Psychology of the School of Philosophy of Wuhan University.
Professor Yu Feng
Why "exclusive columns" for love? In the view of teacher Yu Feng, "In addition to studying, college students will also care about love in their daily lives." I usually do positive psychology research, and love and relationships are also part of it. So the "beauty of love" that detonated the whole scene turned out to be a "love psychology" and the students were able to immerse themselves in experiencing a "love psychology"
"I hope that everyone will talk about a healthy relationship and start and maintain a positive relationship" is the original intention of Mr. Yu Feng to open the lecture. The unexpected enthusiasm of the students surprised the teacher, "This is the desire for love, the desire for psychological knowledge, and of course, the encouragement to me personally."
Source: Wuhan University
"The Art of White Flaws", "The Four Horsemen of the End of Relationships", "Love Map"... The endless stream of fresh nouns with funny and playful images, humorous and humorous style supplemented by scientific knowledge, and clever mixing and matching of various elements have successfully ignited the enthusiasm of the students.
Some students said that this was the first time they had seen the lecture "the windows are full of people". It can be seen that everyone expects to meet a beautiful and sweet love
Many students lined up
Holding the number plate of love, he sighed continuously
"Ask what the world is
Straight to the point where people can't squeeze in."
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Marriage education is set as a compulsory course for college students?
"At present, college students lack emotional education on marriage and love, and most of their understanding of feelings and sex stay at the level of physiological health knowledge, and when faced with emotional and love setbacks, they are prone to extreme out-of-control and even extreme behavior." Yu Xinwei, member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, vice chairman of the Guangzhou Municipal Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, and chairman of the Guangzhou Municipal Committee of the Revolutionary Committee of the Chinese Kuomintang, called for the construction and improvement of the marriage and love education system in colleges and universities, and set marriage and love education as a compulsory course for college students.
Recently, "whether colleges and universities should open love classes" has become the focus of online discussion:
Some people think that you can't use skills to get love, love can't be easily learned through a course, and some people think that the opening of "love class" is mainly to hope that students can cultivate emotional intelligence while concentrating on learning.
In October 2020, a survey by China Youth Daily showed that nearly 90% of the college students surveyed supported the opening of love classes in schools.
Many colleges and universities carry out "marriage and love" courses
According to Duan Xinxing, professor, doctoral supervisor and speaker of the "Psychology of Love" course at the School of Public Administration of China University of Mining and Technology, many colleges and universities across the country have opened courses related to "love psychology". "Course names may be different, such as 'Psychology of Love', 'Love and Happiness in Life', 'Lesson on Happiness in Life', 'Intimate Relationships', etc."
It is understood that as early as 2013, East China Normal University put "love" into the classroom and opened an elective course of "marriage and love";
Since 2015, the Department of Academic Engineering of Hunan University has opened this "Love Psychology" social science elective course, in which students are paired in pairs, playing the AB corner in a romantic relationship to experience different situations, how to deal with differences, and how to get along with lovers;
In September 2015, Zhengzhou Normal University opened an elective course on "Psychology of Love", which was full as soon as it was opened;
In March 2016, Tianjin University officially opened a love course entitled "Theory and Practice of Love", which accounted for two credits;
Nanjing University's "Campus Love Open Class" has a total of 5 lectures, including a love questionnaire survey, famous people commenting on love stories...
Is "love" useful as an elective? To this end, the reporter visited the students of Hunan colleges and universities:
"Love is beautiful and everyone will experience it." In the view of Wang Siyu of Hunan University, there is no constraint of going to college without the constraints of high school, and a beautiful love is very worth remembering.
Yu Qin of Hunan Normal University made a very vivid analogy to the reporter, she said: "Love is like people hungry and want to eat, it is an instinct, but love is different from person to person, everyone has their own unique sweetness, will have different emotional experiences." ”
Source: Sanxiang Metropolis Daily reporter interview
As for whether it is necessary to open a course on "love", everyone has different views:
"People are forbidden to fall in love in high school, but in college, it's a normal thing, but they more or less lack the skills to fall in love." Li Li of Hunan Normal University believes that when you can confess and how you should confess, you will be taught in the course of "love".
Chen Yu of Hunan University believes that the course of "love" is dispensable, love does not have a specific standard, if you want to go, the teacher can not be too rigid, to teach according to the aptitude. "Is it possible to assign male and female friends after class?" Chen Yu said with a smile.
In the view of Associate Professor Zhu Hongying, doctor of law of Hunan University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, the most important spiritual need after everyone meets the basic needs of eating, wearing, living and traveling is the need for love, but the understanding of love and the ability to love are all abilities that people should learn in their lifetime.
After learning the "love" course, learning to love, reading love is the key, even if you can't get rid of the single at the moment, these "emotional intelligence" accumulation will also help you harvest love at the right moment in the future. Xiao Cai is also ready to practice hand speed and go to grab the elective course