Kong Rong let the protagonist of the pear Kong Rong can be described as a moral pacesetter, how did he die?
It is said that when Yuan Shu was proclaimed emperor, it caused an uproar in the world for a while, and Cao Cao wanted to take the opportunity to get rid of Yang Biao, who had a marriage relationship with Yuan Shu before, but Kong Rong, after hearing about this incident, immediately ran to see Cao Cao and said bluntly in front of everyone: "You can't take Yang Biao out of anger because you want to deal with Yuan Shu, and the so-called 'misfortune is not enough for his wife and children', not to mention that Yang Biao and Yuan Shu only have a marriage relationship, not really a blood relative in substance, and it is contrary to heavenly reason to do so." Cao Cao was certainly very unhappy to be accused by Kong Rong so bluntly. So he found a reason and said, "I just took the opportunity to scare Yuan Shu, and I didn't really mean to move Yang Biao."
Kong Rong was such a person, of course, he would not believe Cao Cao's excuse, so he told Cao Cao a big truth. Cao Cao could not argue with Kong Rong, so he gave up his mind to deal with Yang Biao, but afterwards he remembered the momentum of Kong Rong and him arguing with him, and he was very unhappy.
Another thing was that in the fourth year of Jian'an (199), on the eve of the Battle of Guandu, Cao Cao was asking for advice on whether to go to war with Yuan Shao, in fact, at this time, Cao Cao already had the idea of going to war with Yuan Shao, well, his adviser Xun Yu also strongly approved of starting a war against Yuan Shao. The reason why he wanted to hold a meeting to solicit opinions was just to get the unanimous affirmation of the people around him, but what he couldn't imagine was that Kong Rong actually disagreed.
So later Kong Rong died, and also cursed the three tribes.
Xun Yu was Cao Cao's first adviser. Xun Yu can be said to be the core manager of Cao's Group and the founder of Cao's Group. In terms of strategy, Xun Yu formulated a blueprint and military route for Cao Cao to unify the north, and repeatedly revised Cao Cao's strategic policy; tactically, in the face of Lü Bu's rebellion, he single-handedly saved the three cities of Yanzhou and plotted to restrain Yuan Shao at Guandu; politically, he recommended a large number of talents for Cao Cao. Xun Yu was called "My Son's Room" by Cao Cao, but he also died in the end, why is this?
In the later period, Cao Cao wanted to be the King of Wei. At this time, Xun Yu did not know the time to stop Cao Cao's behavior. So Cao Cao sent an empty food box to Xun Yu. Maybe Cao Cao wanted Xun Yu to shut up and not talk. Maybe Cao Cao wanted to tell Xun Yu that from now on, I will no longer have your job here. Anyway, in the end, Xun Yu took poison and committed suicide after looking at the empty food box.
A great literary hero, a great strategist. The endings of the two are actually similar. Kong Rong is no more, as a literati, he has his own clear heights, so Kong Rong died from his high heights as a literati.
As a strategist, Xun Yu could have insight into the current situation and insight into people's hearts, but he still did not break the mind of Cao Cao, the upper leader, perhaps he saw through it, but he still adhered to the original intention of maintaining the Han Room, so he neglected the art of getting along with the leader, and only then did he commit a big taboo.
From the deaths of these two men, we can think of a lot.
What the leader says is what it is. Leaders have absolute right to speak, and we must resolutely support the decisions of leaders.
What leaders want to do, we have to do. We must lead the way. The leader has pointed out the direction, we can only think, how do we reach this direction, what should we do? Don't mention all kinds of unfavorable factors out of the ordinary.
When the leader needs us to make suggestions, we can make suggestions to the leader, but only to make suggestions, and we must not give advice to the leader.