"U is another reality, AS is another you, reality can't be repeated, but U can." 」
Have there ever been times in your life when you want to start over? Although the real life cannot be repeated, with the development of network technology, it seems that everyone can have a second life in the network world.
If people learn to repress because of trauma in the process of socialization, then the online world is to liberate people from the social framework, learn to release their potential, and become a self-satisfied person in the online world. The "U" in "The Dragon and the Freckled Princess" is such a world.
The heroine Xiaoling has been influenced by her mother since she was a child and loves music, but during an outing with her mother, she witnessed her mother die in order to save a little girl who was about to drown. After that, Xiaoling began to close herself off, no longer communicate with her father, and gave up her favorite singing.
In order to encourage Xiaoling to get out of the haze of childhood, her friend Xiaohong introduced a virtual network world "U" with 5 billion members, and Xiaoling incarnated into a beautiful singer-Belle in this online world. At the same time, Xiaoling found that she could sing loudly in the world of "U", and her beautiful singing voice immediately accumulated a large number of fans for her.
However, at one concert, a mysterious man named Dragon suddenly broke into and interrupted Belle's concert, and later found that the mysterious character named Dragon was recently destroying peace in the "U" world, so the "U" world immediately sent members of the justice team to hunt down the whereabouts of the dragon, XiaoLing also vaguely felt that the dragon had similar pain to herself in the incident, so the two of them produced a brilliant adventure story in the "U" world.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > journey of self-redemption</h1>
The original meaning of "redemption" comes from the doctrine that people are born sinful, come to the world in the "incarnate word", crucify all mankind, and use their precious blood as a ransom for humanity, appease the wrath of God, and restore normal relations between mankind and God. Thus salvation later extends to the phenomenon that people can be liberated from a state of suffering.
It is not difficult to see from "The Dragon and the Freckled Princess" that this is a process of mutual liberation for each other:
About Xiaoling: Salvation is learning to accept your true self
First of all, let's look at Xiaoling, a woman who longs to sing and wants to fall in love, but closes herself because of her mother's death, and then finds that she can be herself in the online world, and then opens a new life.
If you pay attention, you will find that each suffering soul is actually a "repressed soul", such as Elsa's ability to seal her own ice and snow. Xiaoling suppressed her love of singing, because every time she sang, she would think of her dead mother, singing is Xiaoling's talent and the most precious gift given to her by her mother, and now the death of her mother makes her no longer like to sing, because even if she sings well, her mother will not come back.
It wasn't until Xiaoling met the dragon on the Internet that she began to discover that her singing voice had the ability to heal and comfort others, and gradually she began to feel that the gifts given to her by her mother were meaningful.
And the climax of the whole play is also here, when Xiaoling chooses to unveil herself in order to gain the trust of the dragon, then Xiaoling is not struggling with whether her singing will remind her of her mother's death, but knows that her singing is capable of bringing happiness to others. It was also at this time that Xiaoling was also willing to accept this imperfect but singing self.
About the Dragon: Salvation is learning to believe that you are capable of being loved
There is a very special setting in the world of "U", that is, "U" will release human biological potential. In other words, the more repressed your talents are in real society, the better you will be in the "U" world, so Belle will be able to sing. Dragon's martial arts abilities, on the other hand, come from a miserable single-parent family.
The true identity of the dragon is Hui, he and his brother have long been threatened by their father, Hui must learn to be patient and let his father vent his emotions in order to protect his brother, so when the dragon meets Belle in "U", he seems to feel the tenderness of his mother in Belle, but after Xiaoling discovers the tragedy in Hui's family, he cannot get Hui's trust.
It turned out that Hui didn't know how many times she had heard about others willing to help him, but none of them really had a way to be solved. Gradually in the process he learned to be patient, and he also learned not to trust others, and he knew that no matter how miserable the world was, there was no day that he could not bear it.
It wasn't until Xiaoling was willing to reveal herself, or even run to Tokyo alone to find their brothers, that Hui was willing to believe that there was really someone who was willing to love them.
I used to hear others say that life affects life, but what can really affect others is not your own life, but your own love that is not afraid of being hurt, and I think this is also the case in relationships. When one party is unwilling to give because of fear of giving, it is often the one who hurts each other, but when one party is willing to try to care for the other party, it is often the opportunity to loosen the wall of the other's heart and let love flow between each other again.
About forbearance: Salvation is learning to let go
Finally, I want to talk about shinobi, I think shinobi is a very middle two role, on the surface cool in fact, he bears a lot of baggage alone, when he watches the movie, he really has a sense of Sasuke's vision, and later when Shinobi saw that Xiaoling was willing to run to Tokyo alone to protect the brothers, then Shinobi let go of the entanglement in his heart.
It turned out that what pulled Xiao Ling and did not jump into the water was to endure. Therefore, he silently told himself that Xiaoling's mother would continue to protect Xiaoling after her mother died, so when he saw Xiaoling's growth, Shinobu finally breathed a sigh of relief and spared himself.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="33" > the meaning of moving forward</h1>
When I write this, I suddenly have a deep feeling, that is, in fact, everyone is their own cage.
Every person who comes to the room has pains that cannot be easily expressed, and these injuries are often accompanied by interpersonal trauma. As the consultative process progresses, the more human complexity can be felt.
Because of expectations, they will worry about failure and worry about injury, but choosing to close is also equivalent to losing all the connections with people, so people begin to choose to lower their expectations and control their lives on all seemingly safe and stable roads.
At this time, in the journey of self-redemption of 3 people, through "The Dragon and the Freckled Princess" to find the meaning of moving forward, the answer is already clear.
To put it bluntly, consulting is actually a process of providing a safe environment for one person to gradually learn to get out of their own cage, but after stepping out of the cage, the world is still full of all kinds of attacks and speculations, but in the process of experiencing that period of counseling, you and I will find that this world is not only simple good people and bad people, but everyone wants to try to be a good person but is too scared and hurt.
Therefore, you and I walk carefully on the steel cable, afraid that once we fall, we will never be able to get up again, but on the road to self-redemption, perhaps everyone is moving forward with injuries. When one day we are willing to make an umbrella for ourselves on a rainy day, then I will also experience the opportunity to experience the beauty of a rainy day!