Don't touch the six taboos of male and female interaction

As we all know, it is not easy to meet a person in the vast sea of people, understand each other, love each other, and be together. The world is big, the years are long. Only by learning to cherish, love will last. Although love has a thousand paths, happiness has only one way. Two people who love each other again should pay attention to these taboos in the process of communication.

1 Lack of private space.

Whether in love or marriage, this phenomenon is common. Once a relationship is established, we tend to expect each other to be as intimate as conjoined babies. Two people are inseparable and need video every day. Whatever the other person wants to do, tell yourself. However, it is often overlooked that the other party is an independent person with his own private space.

Blurring personal boundaries only exhausts both partners in an intimate relationship. Love is not an excessive occupation of each other's space, but a sharing of life, and it also gives each other enough freedom. Love is never possessed or possessed. Zhang Aijia once said: "We are always walking alone, keeping a proper distance, and not relying on what the other party can give us." The most comfortable state of love is to be comfortable, warm, and to be yourself. Having free private space, like-minded friends, hobbies and careers is right. Excessive attachment to each other will only lead to the loss of self and the loss of each other.

We should remember that giving each other enough space is for a better tomorrow.

Don't touch the six taboos of male-female interaction.

Force the other person to change.

Why are so many people tired of falling in love? Because I always feel that my lover is not perfect. In everyone's heart, there is a standard for an ideal lover. Once we find that our lover can't satisfy ourselves, we want to "control" our lover through power struggles and transform them into what we expect them to be.

However, this will only make the other party more and more tired and never satisfied. Really, don't let the expectation of an "ideal lover" hurt each other's feelings. No one in this world is perfect, and we can never be with a perfect person. Someone once said, "It is foolish to change oneself as God, and to change others."

To change others is to oppress others. Where there is oppression, there is resistance. This is extremely detrimental to the feelings, and the feelings will not last long. Everyone cannot be changed, only affected. No matter who you are with, you always seek common ground while reserving differences. We respect each other, cooperate with each other, and gradually approach a better life.

If you can change and accept what you can't change, love will become happier.

Don't touch the six taboos of male and female interaction.

Quarrels led to the Cold War.

Men and women are two different individuals, and there are always some differences in the way they treat people and their living habits, so it is inevitable that there will be differences and contradictions in life. When the contradictions of two people are irreconcilable, quarrels inevitably occur.

There are no couples who don't quarrel, and quarrels between lovers are almost the norm in love. Even two people who are in tune with each other can sometimes disagree. In fact, quarrels are not terrible, but the Cold War is terrible. The longer two people are together, the more disagreements and contradictions will arise.

One or two cold wars can be solved, but over time, it is bound to leave hidden dangers to each other's feelings. The cold war was never the solution to the problem; it would only deepen the gap between them. After the end of the Cold War, you may think that all problems are no longer problems, but for each other, feelings of alienation and strangeness are always there. How many feelings died in the Cold War. Don't let the Cold War be a sword that kills our feelings!

In love, when encountering differences and contradictions, do not run away, sit down and have a good conversation, maybe all the problems can be solved.

4. Unilateral efforts.

I often hear the saying: "It doesn't matter, as long as we can be together, even if I take 99 steps, it doesn't matter, as long as you are willing to take the remaining step!" This sentence is very humble, love is never given unilaterally. You always say, it's okay. I'll pay for it myself. I don't care. But, honey, you probably don't care how long? Like anyone, blindly paying will only make you more and more tired and hurt.

In the world of love, if only one party pays, then this love is doomed to failure. The highest state of love is not that one party gives endlessly for the other, but that you enrich my life, and I enrich your life. Love is you come and go. When you think of me, I think of you too. Love is a heart, except for Wushan Feiyun. Love is the union of two hearts. True love requires two people to pay together, and no one in love blindly pays, and no one blindly gets it. Love is a journey for two people that needs to be climbed hand in hand.

5 Lack of mutual trust.

Lack of trust is a common problem for many couples today. When we first got together, in the sweet and sweet phase, we all trusted each other. But after being together for a long time, we began to pay more and more attention to each other's lives and things.

Sometimes, we get suspicious because the other person isn't telling us something. We wondered if he had done something sorry for himself or if he had found someone else out there. Without trust, it is difficult to maintain long-term love. As the saying goes, "If a relationship lacks trust, it's not far from over."

The most important thing to maintain this relationship is to trust each other. Because of trust, I have love. The best thing about love is that you look at me without a trace of doubt in your eyes. It was my hand to you, without a moment's hesitation. That's the most romantic of us, that's the most unscrupulous of us. The best love begins with courage, beyond love, to reach understanding, and ultimately to trust.

6 male girlfriends and female girlfriends.

In life, everyone has friends. After all, friendship is an indispensable emotion in life. However, some people hurt their loved ones in the name of male and female girlfriends. There is no proper limit to how much love is dead. I remember that there is a passage in "Qi Pai Said": "Marriage cannot give you a sense of security, but people can." This saying also applies to love. People who know how to limit appropriately are easily protected by a proper sense of security. Love that does not suffer from gain and loss often makes the other person look the best. Once the relationship between men and women is established, it is equivalent to declaring to the outside world that they are willing to give up their freedom to interact with other people of the opposite sex. To maintain a certain distance from the opposite sex and master a certain scale, this is respect for yourself and your lover.

Love is always selfish and cannot be shared. In this seductive world, it is the divorcee's alienation from the opposite sex and even "inhumane" that gives the lover the greatest sense of security. Because of love and care, each other's hugs, eyes, pampering and intimacy will always belong to each other. In this world, there is no perfect love, and the feelings that can go to the end are still inseparable from the word "management". Therefore, please manage love well and cherish fate. Cherish every relationship and don't easily leave a gap.