In the movie "Peach Deal", a couple who failed to do business thought about it and decided to try their luck at the casino, but their wife was favored by a rich man and bid a million to spend a good night with her, and her husband actually agreed. Although he later regretted it and the money was returned, the painstaking marriage was inevitably ruined by this episode.
The husband later went to work as a teacher at an architecture school. In class, he held up a brick and said hoarsely, "Even a brick wants to get ahead." ”
The dream of that brick has naturally become the ultimate goal of almost everyone.
A strange psychological phenomenon is that the more you lack something, the more you hate something and the more you desire something. Because the people who hate the rich and the like can only be obtained by a few people, so if you are rich, you must be a zhou peel for the rich and unkind and the chickens crow in the middle of the night; if you become an official, you must be the key care object of the Anti-Corruption Bureau, and all the challenges to the social system in history have been initiated by the poor, and they are all aimed at the slogan of equalizing the rich and the poor. In the final analysis, the purpose of all the struggle against the rich is nothing more than to make themselves better off, and the wise and courageous bayonets of the rich are red, and in their bones they just want to make themselves rich, plunge headlong into the pile of rich people, and then in turn make all the poor people hate with smugness.
The legendary Avanti is extremely clever, sparing no effort to tease Mr. Bayi all his life, but it seems that until the end, Avanti has not been able to squeeze into the circle of the rich, not even a well-off, and his net worth is only a donkey except for the onlookers' looking up and cheering.
China has a fixed word "poor acid", acid is about equal to vinegar meaning, want to have but actually do not, so regret, so the sour taste soared, so can only use scorn to show their disdain, skimming mouth turned back to the shoulder hand, said a "not can not also, really not", in fact, "can not get and want to get" is the most painful point in the heart.
After being poor for a long time, Confucian culture finally ripped off the fig leaf under the intolerable situation, and could not wait to pull the "golden house in the book" to the table, and it became the ultimate goal and dream of the poor students to devote their lives to being promoted to a higher position and get rich. There is not a single person who divides the porridge and reads the thorny strands of the sac fluorescent snow hanging beam "eat bitterly" and is not for the purpose of "becoming a superior person"; there is no one who smells the chicken dancer who only wants to cultivate his self-cultivation and does not seek to reach the smell; there is no one who just wants to use it and cultivate his temperament and be willing to end up in the countryside, so Xiu Cai lifted people to study hard all the way, but only to get the ascension of the chicken dog to heaven, and the literati of all generations have lived very "Fan Jin". There is no doubt that the person who writes the "Fan Jin" style text must be very poor, and while trying every means to scold the officials as unkind and the rich and the unkind, they must also have a dream about the rich in their hearts. As a result, there is "if I am the Qing Emperor in his year", and there is the self-deprecation and ambition of "wait until I have money", after all, only when there is no money, it will be difficult to imagine that there will be luxury with money.
Then, unfortunately, many poor people, in the process of desperately squeezing into the pile of rich people, still have a great hatred for the rich.
Qiu Fu, because he has not yet possessed, once he has, he will naturally no longer hate.
The philosophy of regret is that the more you hate the rich, the more difficult it is to achieve the will to be rich. The reason is very simple: all the poor, standing on the hostile position of the rich, naturally incompatible, naturally rejecting the culture of the rich, how can they become rich? If you dislike the disdain for being in the company of the rich, you will not be able to understand the causes, motives, means, and ways of the rich people's origins from the roots.
Pragmatistic truth arises: because you do not get an idealized way of life, you are jealous and hateful, and hatred is naturally rejected to avoid communion with it, so that you can never achieve the greatest idealization of life. The poor also have to stand in the pile of rich people, and only when you let go of your hatred can you humbly figure out the ways and methods of why the rich are rich, and eventually you may become one of them.
Avanti does not share the heavens with the rich, he is clean and self-righteous, proud of teasing Lord Bayi, so he has been intoxicated for a long time, still only a donkey's fixed assets, it seems to be playing with the rich in the palm of his hand, and how did he know that he himself seems to be willing to sacrifice a few gold coins for a reason to tease the poor, at least for self-amusement? Happiness is that you think that while you have played with others, you are also played by others, you desperately absorb the nutritional satisfaction of small citizens, and often you have become the nutrition of others.
Racking his brains to trick a few gold coins cups and pay to distribute them to the poor, he is fully satisfied, like a living bodhisattva who saves the suffering and saves the suffering, Avanti thinks that justice is in a hurry, but in fact, he is just a Q-style spiritual masturbator, he will always be just a rogue hero who is poisoned by the consciousness of small farmers who has been appointed to "cheat a gold coin every day", and will not become a leader of getting rich, he and those poor brothers who are gladly satisfied under the stimulation of a gold coin, We can never rely on the fruits of victory of those few gold coins to enter a truly idealized well-off life. They just use a gold coin of pleasure, a person high to climax.
The real name of the folk tale "Avanti" is "Nasreddin", but it is not a person's name, but a title, from the Turkic language: "Efcndi". It means "sir" and "teacher", which is an honorific title for a learned and knowledgeable person.