Hello everyone, today is the time of the Lide characters, the Lide characters shared several times are very far away from us ordinary people, and the Lide character that Meng Sister wants to share with you today is very close to our ordinary people, she is the realistic version of "Cinderella" Lin Xiaojing.
When she was young, almost every little girl fantasized that she was the heroine of the story of "Cinderella", met a handsome and dashing prince, and lived a happy and happy life.
As I grew up, I understood more and more that there was a gap between fairy tales and real life, and cinderella's story could only be a fantasy, and it was most important to live every day steadily.
However, Lin Xiaojing turned the story of Cinderella into reality. She had no strong background and no wealth, but became the first Irish countess in China.
Lin Xiaojing was born into an ordinary family in Tianjin, her father was an engineer and her mother was a housewife. During the college entrance examination, because of the abnormal performance, the dream of Tsinghua Peking University was shattered, and he had to study the finance and accounting major that he did not like.
Although I didn't like it, considering that accounting was closely related to my future employment, I decided to sink my heart and study the relevant professional knowledge.
Because she practiced ballet since she was a child, her image temperament was very good, and she did hosting work for a period of time after graduation.
After resigning, she was hired to work in a real estate company in Beijing, because of her cheerful and generous personality, rigorous and serious work, she soon stood out in the company and became the company's key cultivation object.
In 2000, at a group meeting, Bao Baide, a foreign colleague of the company, pointed out the shortcomings in Lin Xiaojing's design, and the two discussed and exchanged views on it.
Because they are colleagues, the number of intersections in the work is more, and they will fight together after work, and gradually become familiar.
So the two often watched Peking Opera, ate, and went on dates, and on each date, Bao Baide drove a half-old car to pick up Lin Xiaojing.
At that time, Lin Xiaojing only subconsciously felt that the man in front of her may have experienced various unknown hardships, so she was empathetic, and she would take the initiative to pay for every meal, and Bao Baide did not stop her.
The longer the two get along, the more Bao Baide is attracted by Lin Xiaojing's independent confidence and generous kindness.
Once, while eating Japanese food, Bao Baide asked Lin Xiaojing in detail, what do your parents do? Where did you go to college? Have you ever had a boyfriend? Is it celibacy? Do you like children? Problems like that.
Lin Xiaojing joked that he checked his household registration, but Bao Baide said very seriously that he had just turned 30 and did not have a girlfriend.
Looking at the serious-looking Bao Baide, she also asked about Bao Baide's family situation. Baupert said he was Irish, the only country in Europe where divorce was prohibited, and although divorce was legalized in 1995, the law still stipulates that parties can only divorce after 7 years of separation, and no further marriage is allowed after divorce.
So Ireland has the lowest divorce rate in the world, and both men and women are very cautious about marriage, either celibacy or have to stay together for a long time after marriage.
After listening to Bao Baide's words, she was both surprised and sighed, thinking that if she had never met a person who could help her to grow old in her life, she could only live alone for a lifetime, and there must be a lot of single old people who wanted to come to Ireland.
Later, after a period of mutual understanding, the two people with common topics and interests naturally established a romantic relationship.
At this time, Lin Xiaojing did not know that Bao Baide was not an ordinary Irishman, but a famous nobleman in Ireland, who would inherit the eighth generation of Earl of Beale Castle, the largest castle in Ireland.
Let's talk about Beal Castle, which is 400 years old, covers an area of 6,000 square meters, has lakes, rivers and forests, more than 2,000 kinds of rare trees and shrubs, more than 4,500 kinds of flowers, and many plants here are more than 200 years old.
Since 1620, the Parsons have lived in this royally styled private castle for generations, and it is Ireland's century garden and natural science centre.
The family of the eighth earl, Bobard, is a famous irish nobleman, the eldest son in the family, and it can be said that Bill Castle is his after all.
Previous generations of earls were not ordinary people, and in 1825 the third generation of the Parsons, who built the world's largest telescope at the time, his son Charles invented the turbine engine and mounted it on the Queen Elizabeth cruise ship.
The fourth earl measured the temperature of the lunar surface, and the seventh earl, The father of Bauberd, personally built a museum to show all the proud deeds of the family.
Among them are the founding of Galileo, Newton, and Hessel, as well as the precious manuscripts, photographs, drawings, and letters of many scientists.
In 1993, Bao Baide came to China with his parents, and he was fascinated by China's long-standing culture, and finally settled down directly, because he loved Chinese culture, and the origin of Bao Baide's name was also very exquisite.
"Bao" is the bag of Bao Qingtian, representing justice, "Bai" is a cypress tree, representing integrity, and "morality" represents morality. Taken together, Bobard means to be an upright, kind, and moral person like Bao Zheng.
It is precisely because of his love for China that he wants to find a Chinese girl as his wife, but before he met Lin Xiaojing, he did not successfully achieve his wish.
Bao Baide has made 2-3 girlfriends, but they all want to get something for nothing, relying on him to become a noblewoman, especially Bao Baide's last girlfriend, after breaking up, he took away everything in Bao Baide's family, even the pot, bowl, and chopsticks were not left. Only one lamp was left, saying that it was left for Bobard to read the breakup letter clearly.
This made Bao Baide very disappointed, from then on began to conceal his identity, silently starting from the ordinary staff, after meeting Lin Xiaojing, Bao Baide's heart has a glimmer of hope, the two are in agreement, he is more certain that Lin Xiaojing is the ideal partner in his mind.
After that, Lin Xiaojing received a notice of study abroad in Australia, on the one hand, the dream of studying abroad opportunities, on the other hand, the lover who was difficult to leave, she fell into a dilemma.
Originally, the identity of a transnational lover was already very troublesome to her, and now she had to face a foreign country, facing this relationship, she had the idea of breaking up for the first time. Of course, Bobard understands his girlfriend's concerns, and he is also very supportive of his girlfriend to pursue his ideals.
Since they met, Lin Xiaojing was like a wild rose on the edge of the city, exuding a unique pride on his body, which made him deeply addicted, and after meeting her, Bao Baide understood what a real soulmate was.
So he silently made a bold decision: to propose to Lin Xiaojing.
In the face of the sudden marriage proposal, Lin Xiaojing was very surprised, looking at her lover on one knee with deep affection, she agreed, because she believed that love can overcome all difficulties.
After the successful marriage proposal, Bao Baide took Lin Xiaojing back to China non-stop to bring her to her family.
It wasn't until Lin Xiaojing came to the door of the imposing castle that she knew that the foreign young man in front of her was not small. Bao Baide led Lin Xiaojing into the castle and introduced, "This is my home." ”
She also asked, "How many floors and units do you live in?" When she heard her boyfriend answer, "This castle is all my home," Lin Xiaojing froze.
She never imagined that Bao Baide, who usually lived a frugal and low-key life, was actually an earl who owned a castle!
The Parsons welcomed Xiaojing, especially Bao Baide's father. He was quite supportive of his son's decisions, and in his opinion, a person's education and character were far more important than her background.
With the support of her fiancé and family, Lin Xiaojing flew to Australia to start her own study abroad life. When Lin Xiaojing returned from studying in 2004, they held a vigorous wedding in Beijing and Ireland.
Lin Xiaojing's name was officially written into the family tree of the Parson family, and Ireland also welcomed the first Chinese countess.
After that, Lin Xiaojing gave birth to a pair of children, and now their family of four lives in Bill Castle, and Lin Xiaojing has become the hostess of the castle and is in charge of the financial power of the butler family.
Lin Xiaojing, an ordinary Tianjin girl, is not only the first Chinese countess to write about the Irish Parson family, but also the first Oriental woman to continue the history of the 400-year-old castle.
In this regard, Lin Xiaojing said: "I don't think that the aristocratic family is on top, I think that My husband's relatives are very kind and honest, which is exactly the same as my parents, and we are equal at this point." ”
It is precisely because of such self-confidence and independence that Lin Xiaojing after marriage will fall generously and elegantly, and make full use of professional knowledge to manage the great family business in her husband's family.
Therefore, with Lin Xiaojing's excellent ability and boldness, she can fully bear the title of "Countess of Ireland".
We say that cinderella's fairy tale exists in reality, but only if you make yourself excellent and independent before you meet the prince.
Although not every girl can become a countess like Lin Xiaojing, if you can make yourself excellent first, you can attract excellent people to accompany you, whether it is career or life, this is equally important for both men and women.
Sister Meng also wants to talk to the friends here that birth is not the most important thing for a person, but the key is what kind of mentality you treat for the rest of your life.
For the rest of our lives, we should continue to enrich our wisdom and make our brains stronger.
I have a philosophy called the philosophy of winning. In this way, I also share with you what it means to win, and to win is to be a little stronger than your past self.
We don't think that winning is to surpass others, because in the track of life, we are the only ones who can always accompany ourselves to run.
So 2022 is coming soon. By the end of 2021, we can all ask ourselves: Are you a little better this year than last year? Looking ahead, will you be stronger next year than this year?
This is today's Lide character - Lin Xiaojing, I hope you can like, if you like these contents, remember to like, forward, collect, let more friends share the wisdom of culture together. Bye bye~