Today is Mother's Day on May 10th, fortunately, I went to my mother on the reminder of my wife, and my mother teased on the other end of the phone: "I thought you forgot, and I thought I would ask you for a red envelope tomorrow." Hearing the mother happy like a child, I inexplicably wanted to cry.
The mother was unfortunate, and her parents died in her childhood and lived a difficult life with her sister, but fortunately she was sponsored by the fifth uncle of the same clan and survived in that era. But her mother always said that she was lucky: "Because of you." ”
Mother's happiness is the pride of talking about us, always smiling at the corner of her mouth; it is the worry when she misses us, picking up the mobile phone but afraid of disturbing you; it is the surprise of seeing each other many days later, which makes her often busy.
Even if the mother gives everything, we will forget the mother at some point. The moment when she enjoys her youth at school; the moment when she is in love, the moment when she is married and single-mindedly in her little family.
Of course, we will also occasionally think of the goodness of our mother, today; and we are touched by watching a movie about our mother.
When I watched "The Most Beautiful Parting in the World" again, although I had been prepared for defense, I still couldn't help but shed tears, and the second brush plot had lost a little less infectious, but it was moving at the moment.
"The Most Beautiful Parting in the World" is based on the novel by Korean writer Lu Xiqing depicting his mother's life, focusing on the great life of his mother, who bears all the burdens of the family but does not get the love she deserves.
Kim In-hee is a housewife, her husband does not care about the affairs of the family at all, let alone intervene to help; the son is facing the pressure of the examination, the situation is not good for him to study; the daughter is in love with the husband of the wife, and he enjoys it; the mother-in-law has suffered from Senile dementia for many years, often scolding her, and has been 15 years; the brother misunderstands that she has embezzled the family's money, sneers at her, and often blackmails her. When she bore all this, no one cared about her, just felt that it was taken for granted.
Obviously, I already know that this is a movie that shows off family affection, and all this is just a foreshadowing, but you can still see the figure of your mother from inside.
Silently closing the door, crying while watching, afraid that the son playing next door would hear it, but in the end he couldn't help but cry. It is at this moment, more understanding of the mother, never got the feedback of love.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > bear its weight and not love it</h1>
Kim In-hee plays the role of mother, wife, daughter-in-law, and sister in the play, which is an interlocking relationship, but it is precisely less of the identity of the "daughter" who is loved. Everyone was enjoying the fruits of this woman's labor, but no one cared for her until she became seriously ill.
01, she is a wife
The husband's medical malpractice led to the closure of the clinic and he was discouraged from his new job. Every time he came home, his husband looked heavy, and reticence and coldness became his norm. Even if she sees her mother beating her wife, she will silently push open the door and go to work without a sound, at this moment she is more like a stranger who is ignored for her husband.
02, she is a mother
She was uncomfortable, especially thinking about the pair of children she loved the most. At this time, the son was excited about going to college, and he was by his girlfriend; she wanted to ask her daughter for lunch, but the daughter told her that she didn't have time, and turned around and threw herself into the arms of her husband.
At this moment, she is like a widowed old man, but she is not, when she is busy, she also has to face the resentment from her children, those who dare not release it in front of outsiders, a brain poured into her body, at this moment she is more like an enemy who is vented.
03, she is a sister
The gambling brother, because of the misunderstanding, was extremely disgusted with her, never gave her a good face, and relied on her every day to help her, but always said evil words.
Even if she was lying on the bed, dripping, her brother would run to the ward and yell at her, holding out his hand for money while cursing the miserly ghost in his mouth, and she was angry and unable to speak. But the person in front of her always made her hate, and she gave her medical expenses to her brother.
In the face of her brother's hysterical roar, at this moment she is more like a hated passerby.
04, she is a daughter-in-law
For fifteen years, for fifteen years, she repeated the servant-like service every day, in exchange for real scolding, and the elderly demented mother-in-law never looked up to her.
In addition to scolding, there was endless trouble waiting for her, and if she didn't pay attention, she ran out to pick up garbage to eat, made a lot of dirty things, and then stained the whole house. She bowed her head humbly and silently cleaned up, and at the moment she was more like a servant who had been summoned.
In the movie, Kim In-hee rarely has his own free time, and even during his illness, he still endures the pain of illness and takes care of the whole family. Even when she went to the hospital, her first thought was to get better quickly, because there was a big stall waiting for her at home, and there was a group of people who needed her to take care of it.
Mothers are like this, although there is no tragic experience in the movie, but also tirelessly busy every day, even if the home does not bring her much love, but she loves everyone in the family from the heart, and thinks "this is what I should do".
She is a mother, wife, daughter-in-law, sister, but not the beloved "daughter", silently bearing the pressure from life, but not getting the love she deserves.
Her beauty is ignored; her love is taken for granted; her efforts are ignored; when the family in the movie suddenly wakes up, it turns out that her mother has given so much, it is the most beautiful in the world, everything seems to be mocking.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the saddest thing is that it reminds us that "the most beautiful in the world" is not her beauty, let alone her dedication, but her parting</h1>
Kim In-hee's condition is getting worse and worse, and when she learns that she is about to die, she does something that no one can imagine:
She picked up the pillow and slowly walked to her mother-in-law, looking at her sleeping, her eyes were full of reluctance. She was afraid that her family would be dragged down by her mother-in-law after she left, and she was even more afraid that her mother-in-law would be taken care of, so she slowly put down the pillow on her mother-in-law's head...
Even if she had been taking care of her for fifteen years, even if she was tired every day and did not want to move, she had never had such a thought, and the cruelty at this moment was even more profound in her love for her family.
Later, the family slowly learned that Kim In-hee was seriously ill, and she became the focus of the family, and everyone seemed to have a great understanding and hated their past performances. The dull husband began to boo and greet her; the wayward children began to return home on time; the brother who roared angrily turned back; even the demented mother-in-law began to hug her.
Why is it the most beautiful parting, because in the end everything returns to the beginning, back to the original plain, we also found her beauty in the plain. If it can be saved, the husband should come home on time every day to help her take care of the family; the children should be more considerate of the mother's difficulties and have more companionship; the younger brother should change his past; the mother-in-law will also have some clarity.
This is just if, but the reality is that when we find the most beautiful in the world, it is often the moment when she is withering. Assuming that Kim In-hee is still healthy in the play, or her cancer is not so serious that it cannot be treated at an advanced stage, perhaps her efforts will be ignored.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > written at the end</h1>
Kim In-hee is gone, her mother-in-law is still looking for her figure, she went to the flower room, saw the familiar figure, everything is beautiful, everything can not be grasped.
She seemed to be still around, still in the memories of those people, the most beautiful parting, although she was gone, the instructions left behind were still there.
The daughter in the play knows that her mother is seriously ill and cries and says, "What should I do without my mother?" "Seeing this, we burst into tears again, it turns out that without them, we are so vulnerable."
Today is Mother's Day, from this moment on to cherish, to send a bouquet of flowers, a phone greeting, a "I love you", let her feel our love, let the parting come later.
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