Today, because of the problem of the interest class, I had a fight with my daughter [Tear Running], and the result was that there was one in the East House and one in the West House, and I closed the door to the Cold War, and later, I received this letter from her, and I had a lot of feelings, and I shared it with you.
Mom:
Baby's life decisions, can not all be done according to your ideas, requirements, you have to let her learn to do her own multiple choice questions, if you help her do it all, then you will make a big mistake, because she will have to rely on you in this life, she can't do anything herself, let alone self-discipline.
Do you know that you can't accompany her for the rest of your life, and when one day you leave, how should she live?
Don't say that because he is too young, she doesn't know anything, so go help her with multiple choice questions, but let her start doing it herself from an early age, and she has to go through everything by herself.
Second, don't use scolding to educate children, if you are now educating children in the way of scolding, stop quickly, and then do not conceit yourself.
Because the child is talkative and thoughtful, you don't think of her as a doll you use to vent your emotions.
Everyone has three emotions hidden in their hearts, they are angry, happy, sad...
Think about it, when you are angry, does your fire come out of your head all at once? What about children?
The child is like you, he will be angry, but the only difference is that the child will swallow, that is, because you are her mother, she treats you as the best person in the world, you are the quilt that covers her body when it is cold, the cool mat that is spread on the bed when it is hot...
But what about you? But do not understand her, say how she is not good, sometimes when you are angry, even spit fragrant, in your eyes, you do not take her ideas as the same thing, and in the eyes of your children, it is already a negative score...
Originally, the children were all angels in heaven, in order to fulfill the wishes of your adults, let you have a child, only to come to the earth, they began to look for their mothers early in heaven, and finally came to you, but you did that to them?
You often say that small trees do not slip straight, and people do not repair the stems and chirp.
But you have to use the right way to fix it, for example, a thing, you can come up with many, many ways to solve it, let her solve it, and this thing can end perfectly.
If the child makes you angry, you can't lose your temper either, hold on, because you're the mom, she
It's a child, your mind is more mature than her thoughts, you have to tell her that this thing is wrong, and you have to correct it later.
In this way, the baby can bravely go its own way and go farther and farther on the road of life.
Hope you understand!
This salute
Tintin
October 30, 2021