Women are the source of the world, the source is not turbid, and the water flow is naturally clear.

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Chat with S.

She said that the H daughter-in-law in the village left, gave birth to three children and married another place and gave birth to a baby.

I said who is H, and how come I'm not impressed?

She said that the riverside village of Ade's brother's family.

Oh, remember.

She said that the girl had married H and had no money and left.

She said that there were only a few families living in that area, only one daughter-in-law was gone, and the children born were all carried by grandparents.

I asked, is K's daughter-in-law still in the village?

She said, leaving the child behind and leaving. In the words of Ah Niu, when the wife is there, every day the circle of friends shows how beautiful his wife is, is a beautiful woman, and now he does not say a word. The woman did not divorce him, and followed him to give birth to a child... If you have money, you can talk, and if you don't have money, you will leave your children and say goodbye.

I asked, is F's daughter-in-law gone?

She said that she left early, and the woman married somewhere else, and the conditions were better than this. I heard that in the past two years, I have wanted to come to see the child, and the child's grandfather will not let me come.

It's someone else's business, not the person's, and neither of us can comment on whether it's right or wrong. But I always feel that I am affected by the western fast food culture, and even love and marriage are left with naked desire needs. People are living in a muddy state.

The list of such examples is endless.

In the words of an uncle: In these years, if you don't go into the coffin, you don't know who your daughter-in-law is.

I don't know why, look at some rich and powerful people, the marriage is like a political tug-of-war, the essence is because they are too smart, the battlefield into life. There are common interests that are lovers and wives, and the distribution of benefits is unbalanced or divergent, otherwise it is nothing. Love and hate are one and can be transformed into each other.

Speaking of which, living a good life requires wisdom, not cleverness.

Look at some low-level people who have no money and no power, some people's marriages are like animal instincts, the essence is because of backwardness, low education, not enough civilization, evolution is also degenerating, in addition to mating and reproduction, it seems that only money is at work.

Think about how important a woman's education and growth is from a holistic perspective. There is a saying that women are the source of the world, the source is not turbid, and the water is naturally clear.