There is something that cannot be said well, it is really a kind of problem, and both men and women must be cured.
And, treat it as soon as possible!
This kind of mental paranoia, or psychological distortion, is terrible in real life.
No matter who you are with after marriage, you will not be happy.
There will even be immeasurable damage.
Two people get married and live a life, and they have to face all kinds of trivial things in life.
The inability to communicate normally is an absolute disaster for the couple's feelings.
It is like drinking "a poison", and you may take the life of marriage at any time.
If the other party does not meet with you in general, you can still get by.
Once you encounter someone who can't stand it, it's an endless fight, and you will even choose to leave you because of the suffocation of life.
Therefore, I would like to advise men and women in marriage to live a sweet and long life as a couple, and the most important thing is to learn to speak well.
This is also a manifestation of culture.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > first: can not speak well, dry, easy to add blockage! </h1>
In the relationship between men and women, some people can't talk well, and they will show to be against you and work against you.
When you say east, the other party wants to say west.
You say this thing is good, and the other party says that this thing is not good.
In short, there will always be all kinds of reasons to refute you, to hit you, so that you have no face, no room.
In fact, this kind of person is the most stupid type of person for men and women to get along with, so to add to the blockage of chat and communication,
Not only will you not be happy, but you will also hurt the other person to the point of no end.
People who don't care about it will become silent in front of you.
People who are calculating with you will show displeasure in their faces, and even turn their faces to you on the spot.
If you have any dislikes and complaints in your heart, you can openly and honestly say it to solve it, and don't use the "can't speak well" way to personally ruin the feelings of two people.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="42" > second: can't talk well, yin and yang weird, easy to make people angry. </h1>
Living a life of two people, both men and women, I believe that the most unacceptable thing is yin and yang weird talk, this attitude of speaking, sometimes really drives people crazy.
But in real life, there are always some people who like the expression of yin and yang weirdness when they are not used to some things.
Sometimes, I think I'm so smart that others can't hear me.
As everyone knows, such a yin and yang strange qi has touched the bottom line of others, and it is easy to make people angry.
Although there is something to say, sometimes it seems too direct.
But compared to talking about yin and yang weirdness, it is better to directly point out the pain, atmosphere, and freedom.
In general, people who are often said to be yin and yang are more stingy, have no temperament, and have no pattern.
Most of these people have a little bit of a villain's heart.
Therefore, being a person sometimes needs to polish your eyes, and once you get married, it is really a catastrophic destruction.
From parents to children, they will suffer.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="47" > third: can not speak well, mess around, easy to be cold</h1>
In real married life, some people can't talk well and like to mess around.
For example, when two people quarrel, it is because of what just happened, but some people like to turn over old accounts, come up with other things to mess around, and even full of stomach crooked reasoning, but also vibrant.
In fact, such a person is easy to make people speechless, and even do not want to theorize with it.
This is also a phenomenon that exists between many couples, from the initial quarrel to the final lazy quarrel, all because the two people do not play cards according to normal reasons and like to mess around.
Willful, anyone will.
Nonsense, anyone will say.
If you can't speak well, regardless of right and wrong, and reverse black and white, then such feelings, no matter how generous people will retreat.