Are you happy? If you can't always feel the joy of the long journey, maybe my words are a little useful to you!
Happiness is what it is
Let's talk about it together, unhappy self a lot of times we are not doing ourselves, but imitating others, we are not living our own lives, but envying the lives of others, we are not pursuing our own happiness, but copying the happiness of others, it is undeniable that we have always been comparing, and from the beginning of life, when reading than grades, after graduation than performance, eating is better than bad, dressing than brand, buying a house than size, buying a car is more expensive, talking about love is sweeter, marriage is more stable than stable. Stemming from the influence of error, whether it is the past and the present comparison or their own comparison with others, as long as there is a comparison, there will be a psychological gap, the result may be a positive gap or a reverse gap, in fact, the positive direction is good is progress and pleasure, the latter is worse than the role of self-defeat, even if compared with others, what we envy the most is actually the ideal of ourselves.
Be happy with yourself
Milan Kundera said good, living in the villa, so we look at other people's lives feel happy, to their own but this is cruel, the loss is beautiful, after getting it is also just so, we are too accustomed, have always taken for granted, we are too afraid of losing always suffer from loss, if people can not avoid comparison throughout their lives, then may as well change the idea of comparison, you go to the hospital to see, in fact, health is the greatest wealth, you go to the cemetery to walk, living well is the biggest luxury, When others are successful, you only see his scenery, but ignore his vicissitudes, when others are happy, you are full of envy, but ignore the hard work of the people around you, do not ask for it and often ask for it in the moment, the most precious thing at the moment is that your positive energy at this time is lost and difficult to lose and regain, life is not elsewhere just here, when you are yearning for other people's lives, maybe others are envious of your happiness.