The bustling city wears you and me, the intricate palms of the hands, the beauty that cannot be held.
Sometimes feelings are a game, you think you will love a person with all your heart, but inadvertently, you can't use all your heart to give, not that you don't love, but you love can't move.
My friend told me that she had decided to let go because she had had enough of the other person's indifference and disregard. Before that, she had told me about her ups and downs of feelings, she said: I love him, so I will pay attention to anything related to him, do my best to understand him in every way I can, and want to fit into his world, I take the initiative to chat with him, accompany him when he needs it, but the result of my sincere efforts is finally exchanged for dispensable; I say that giving for the person I love is a kind of happiness, but when all the efforts are ignored, happiness becomes very bitter.
I think everyone who has been hurt has that feeling, that feeling of being disheartened, and then how torturous the process is. Speculation arose and vague expectations kept correcting my bottom line until my conscience was so disappointed that I had to choose to say goodbye.
In fact, two people are not afraid of arguing, afraid of coldness, do not want to say more to each other, quarrels show that they still care about each other, and cold shows that there is no emotion a person loses temper with you because you are very important, a person always nags you because he cares about you, a person takes the initiative to contact you because he has you in his heart, if one day these nagging disappear, care is gone, become quiet, that person becomes sensible in an instant, then there is nothing for you.
People who really care about you and care about you have feelings for you, your words and deeds can attract his attention, you will make him worry, miss, get angry, etc., which shows that he regards you very seriously, and when he changes and becomes quiet, cold, and sensible, his heart will be cold.
In the film, Julie falls in love with Bryce at first sight, and from then on, she embarks on a long journey in pursuit of love, a person's heartfelt love is doomed to be difficult, Bryce always deliberately avoids her, ignores her kindness, even stands by when she needs help, remains silent when she is depressed, and finally leaves disappointed by Bryce's repeated injuries.
Emotionally, no one can wait indefinitely, pay endlessly, tired of cold suffering, and quietly leave, feelings are not afraid to pay, afraid of paying everything is indifferent and ruthless gathering, even if you take the initiative 99 steps, the other party is still standing still, indifferent.
This may be the impermanence of feelings, if you bravely pay for a person, but you are hurt to pieces, do your best to pay in exchange for the whole body; feelings can withstand the wind and rain, but can not withstand the cold, if every enthusiasm in exchange for cold, then even 1000 degrees of heat heart will slowly cool down, until finally can no longer love, no one can wait indefinitely, unlimited to pay, tired of cold, and silently left.
So don't destroy the heart that loves you with indifference, if you love, please love with your heart, even if you don't love, please be kind, because some hurt can be removed, and some hurt is always there.