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Liking someone can't be hidden, and neither can you dislike them.
Feelings are often more complicated than we think.
Sometimes for various reasons, even if we really don't like a person, we can't directly refuse, and we can only give each of us a step in various euphemistic ways.
Xiaofeng has been pursuing Peach for a year, and during this period, no matter what gift Xiaofeng gives Peach, Peach will return unchanged. Even if it is a departmental gathering, Xiaofeng takes the initiative to bear the cost of Peach, and Peach will return the money to Xiaofeng without falling.
Xiao Feng's friends can see that Peach doesn't like Xiao Feng at all, which is why she is so determined to refuse all of Xiao Feng's kindness.
However, Xiao Feng took Peach's move as another interpretation, he thought that Peach was just testing him, as long as he passed the test, Peach would be with him.
It wasn't until one day, when Xiao Feng saw that Peach was very close to a boy's demeanor, that he realized that Peach didn't like him.
Xiao Feng was a little angry, he came to Peach in person and asked her if she was off the list, and even he blamed Peach for why he didn't directly refuse and let him be a fool for a year in vain.
In this regard, Tao Tao said: "This year, I think my attitude has clearly shown my rejection of you, I think we are colleagues, not so direct, always have to give each other a step." ”
After this incident, Xiao Feng always felt very embarrassed, and every time he saw Peach, he was eager to find a hole in the ground.
Fortunately, Peach's character is very good, and he did not spread this matter in the company, otherwise Xiao Feng did not know if he could stay in the company.
Many times, in order to take into account the feelings of the other party, they will really choose not to express them directly, but to use actions to euphemistically express rejection.
For example, some men choose to "break the connection" in love, which means that he and the woman have offered to break up.
If you don't understand or don't understand the other party's refusal, then you will really encounter the same oolong as Xiao Feng.
In love, a woman's way of doing this to you is not testing you, but she does not like you, don't be clear.
First, reject all your kindness
A woman will only reject all the kindness of a man if she does not like a man.
She will return all the gifts that men have bought her, she will refuse to be alone with men, she will refuse men to offer help...
Her rejection is not a test, but hopes to be able to use this way to make you completely stop thinking and let you understand that she is not interested in you.
In "Splendid Weiyang", Tuoba Yu likes Li Weiyang, but Li Weiyang does not like Tuoba Yu at all, so Li Weiyang will resolutely refuse everything Tuoba Yu has done for her.
Because she doesn't like it, she wants to be able to send a clear signal: I don't like you.
Of course, there are also a small number of women who obviously do not like men, but they are still content to accept men's good and give men very confusing information.
However, for the vast majority of women, their upbringing and cognition will not allow them to clearly dislike and accept each other's goodness.
If a girl always rejects your kindness to her in various ways, then it means that she probably doesn't like you.
Don't reply to your message: Refuse to spend time for you
Both men and women, when he likes a person, he will try to reply to each other's messages in seconds.
If a guy doesn't respond to your messages on a regular basis, it means he's not willing to spend time on you and he doesn't like you at all.
Not replying to a message means you're not important enough to deserve his time, and he doesn't even have perfunctory ideas about you.
If a woman often doesn't respond to your messages, then she has no interest in you at all.
There are also some women who will politely reply to you, but you will find that her responses are very simple words, obviously do not want to continue to talk to you.
Whether a woman likes you or not, the most authentic answer can be seen from the frequency with which she responds to your messages, and the attitude of replying to you.
If a woman has repeatedly stopped responding to your messages, don't ask yourself to contact her frequently, because this will only make her more and more disgusted with you.
Third, say that you don't want to fall in love now: refuse to give you a chance
When she meets the object of her choice, how can a woman not want to fall in love?
When a woman says to the man who pursues her, "I don't want to be in a relationship right now," she is often saying no, rather than coming to you after a while if I want to fall in love.
Many times, a woman's sentence that I don't want to fall in love right now is a white lie, she just wants to give you a step down, hoping that you can stop and find someone else.
If a woman really likes someone, then everything about the other person can be just right for her. If she doesn't like it, even if the time is ripe and the other party is excellent, she will have various reasons to shirk it.
If a woman always looks at you coldly, always rejects your kindness, always does not reply to your messages, always emphasizes to you again and again that she does not want to be in love now, then it means that she does not like you at all.
Liking is uncontrollably wanting to get closer, getting closer, and only if she doesn't like you will push you away again and again.
If she really doesn't like you, leave early and give yourself some time to get out.
The love thing is unfair, not that the longer you wait and the more you give, you will definitely get the result that the other party loves you.
For the vast majority of women, she tends not to fall in love with the man they didn't like in the first place because women believe more in the premiere effect and focus on how they felt in the first place.
If you have exhausted your mind and in exchange for the other party's euphemistic rejection again and again, then either give up or continue to endure the other party's estrangement.
Whether to continue to love, to continue to pursue a person with little hope, there is no standard answer, but no matter what choice you make, don't regret it, don't deceive yourself, and refuse to accept the fact that the other party doesn't love you.
It is often rare for two lovers to be happy, and no one stipulates that if you fall in love with a person, you must also fall in love with you in order to be successful.
Every heartbeat is a precious experience, there is no need to dwell on the results, if you use your best efforts or can not be as you wish, it is better to let go, each complete, return the other party a quiet, return their own new hope.