Playing is Rebellion

(9 of 100 Emotional Essays)

In the eyes of adults, the standard of a good child is to be well-behaved: relatives follow the rules in front of them, and parents follow the rules in front of them. Girls' conditions are higher, not only to be cute, but also to be gentle, to be as delicate and capable as Liu Lanzhi in "Peacock Southeast Flying", and to be as gentle and elegant as Xue Baochao in "Dream of the Red Chamber", otherwise it will have no connection with the laurels of "lady". However, now some girls don't buy this account, they shake their yellow or red haired heads, skimming their purple or black lips, and snorting and saying: Wow, is there any mistake, what age, and learn the corpses in the horse king pile, we are Y-Girl, playing is rebellion!

The so-called Y-Girl refers to the "new new girl" born in the late 70s and early 80s. Today, they are in the "green onion years", and they are undoubtedly the new force in "half the sky", leading the fashion and dominating the beauty. The most important thing is that they "carry freedom to the end." They wear muffin shoes, bag pants, their hair is dyed like aliens, and in the face of the amazed eyes of pedestrians, they don't care to say: "What is the image, believe in their own feelings"; in the deafening rock dance hall, they are "how to come happy", when they come home in the middle of the night, their parents have half a sentence of criticism, they shout: "Free to play a bad"! Classic love, in their view, is just a prop used by writers to earn money, actors to deceive tears, they believe in "do not seek to stay together forever, but to have once had", love is to love a dead and live, scattered to scatter a pain and happiness, a love world is stirred up like a kaleidoscope of riches.

They are so free that the adults are always unaccustomed to it, sighing and saying that the world is not ancient. It's also right to think about it. At present, society is in an impetuous period of "rising storms", and the mutual immersion of various ideological trends has caused changes in people's concepts, not to mention young people with strong acceptance ability! Moreover, the impact of cultural diversity will inevitably make the "new new girls" come to "take it all": the "little swallows" in the TV can break into the palace alone, and they dare to "storm and fire and invade Kyushu"; Wei Hui and Mian Mian write about bars, rock and sex so strangely, how can they not yearn for a drunken party rest under the flickering candlelight. In addition, the Internet also makes them confused, always want to learn the "light dance" like "net" a "pimp Cai".

The knife pulls objective reasons for them like this, they may not appreciate it, they will only pretend to be innocent and say, anyway, I am not a bad child. That's the truth! The reason why new girls pursue personalization is to get rid of all the shackles of tradition, challenge traditional gender roles, and learn to control their own destiny. They may not be standard little beauties, they may not seek to make people feel "cute" and can not be among the "ladies", but their values of "not innovating, rather than dying", the healthy mentality of being ready to meet the challenge, the aesthetic of advocating individuality that is "not popular and slim, healthy and the most beautiful", and the naughtiness and arrogance of "I am a girl I am afraid of", all of which reflect the autonomous spirit of the new new girl.

Seeing this, adults will say: If they are all right, what use are we? If it doesn't work, what status do we have? In fact, not all of our adults are qualified or capable to guide me, it is also possible that they guide me

Guys. If new girls rebel against backward traditions, shouldn't they be recognized? If they do a better job of autonomy than we adults do, shouldn't they be praised?