"Sometimes it's better to turn around and leave than to pretend to hold on."
Each of us will experience a variety of people and things in our lives, and many people are just hurried guests in life, they can only accompany us for a period of time, and they are doomed not to accompany us for a lifetime.
And what kind of people will accompany us to the end, time will give the answer. This is true of human interaction, and even more so with the sexes.
The love between two people may not last forever.
But it doesn't matter, if you don't love it, then turn around and leave, it's nothing. But if we suffer betrayal, at this time, whether to choose to turn around and leave, or choose to forgive in the same place, is a very controversial question. In real life, some people choose the former, and some people choose the latter.
Whichever way you choose, there are basically different reasons. But in fact, after encountering the betrayal of the other half, begging him to stay, or generously choosing to forgive, is not the best way, the best way is actually to turn around and leave, and stride forward without turning his head back.
After reading the following reasons, you know the correctness of this approach.
There are countless times waiting for you
"Derailment is the same as domestic violence, only zero times and countless times."
This is a sentence that many people agree with, and such a sentence with such a high degree of recognition must have been summed up through the experience of countless predecessors.
Only if he really doesn't love you anymore will he risk the moral and legal risk of being discovered and find someone else to take your place, so even if he doesn't find it now, he will find it later. Even if he is found out by you to break up this time, there will be a next one.
Because as long as he loses love for you and moves his heart to others, then this switch is completely turned on, and there will be countless infidelities and betrayals waiting for you.
And if you choose to forgive for the first time, then he will be even more unscrupulous, and every time he finds a reason to prevaricate you, after all, he knows that you will forgive him no matter what.
But who can bear such "humiliation"? He chooses to forgive for love and family, but he has waited for you countless times, there are thousands of reasons and excuses waiting to prevaricate you, such a man, why not leave him?
Forgiveness cannot erase the divide
"Not all the sorry can be exchanged for it."
Not all forgiveness can restore things to their original state. Sometimes, one thing is done, even if you say more sorry, even if others have forgiven, but the irreversible consequences have been caused, at this time, these sorry and forgiveness will become pale and weak.
The same is true when the other half betrays you, even if he apologizes and you express forgiveness, but this does not hide the fact that he no longer loves you, and you have been hurt by him.
Even if you forgive him and he returns to your side, I believe that many people will meet and talk with their other half again, and they will feel unnatural when they are intimate, they will feel estranged, and they will remember the betrayal of the past. Such a heart-wrenching, torturous past, why always remind yourself not to forget.
Turn away the most dashing
Forgiveness cannot erase the pain, nor can it cover up the existing estrangement between two people, nor can it heal the long-lost love between two people.
On the contrary, it will also make the other party worse, even unscrupulous, and he will bring you nothing but harm. Therefore, in the face of such betrayal, forgiveness is not the best choice, and it is the wisest decision to leave in a dashing manner.
Dashing away, you don't have to go to great lengths with him, fight the third party, and don't have to worry about him having other disloyal behaviors, let alone worry about him going underground endlessly, don't have to listen to his fake and can't fake the grandiose reasons for cheating.
Instead, you can be bold and be yourself, restore the joy and freedom of being single, and not have to worry and get angry with unnecessary people, what a wonderful and once-and-for-all thing. So when he suffers betrayal, turn away.