A very warm movie "Bella's Magic", calm down and watch slowly, like reading a life. It tells the story of a writer with a bad career who was sent to the island to recuperate, and met a single mother on the island who took care of three children alone, which did not prevent them from becoming good friends, and they also gained unique insights in their daily lives.
An inspirational, warm and touching story, a story that can read its deep meaning. Although plain, it is deeply rooted in people's hearts, and I feel the beauty of life in more than an hour of careful tasting. Many of the small details of life in the story contain the way of education, a positive education.
There is a magic in the town of Bella that can heal many people whose hearts have been traumatized. After watching this film, parents should transform their own education methods, be more tolerant of their children, more love, more patience, and let their children thrive in a positive educational environment. Let children understand love, grow in love rather than be spurred to grow in strict education, so that they can easily love others, respect others, and think for others.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the environment in which the child lives determines the child's growth</h1>
There will be many environments in the child's life, the home is one of the most important environments in the child's life, and the parents will be the child's first mentor. Let the home environment be a warm atmosphere, the child will have a healthy childhood. If the family relationship is tense due to impatience or poor atmosphere, the child will be left behind from an early age, which will be indelible damage. It's like the single mother in the movie who takes care of her three children every day and spends a certain amount of time with them. Be your child's friend instead of getting along with your children from your mother's point of view, so that your children will talk to her.
With better communication, the mother will not rush to blame the child's problem first, first give the child a loving embrace and comfort them, and then analyze the right and wrong of the matter. Many parents today are unable to do this, and most parents have difficulty in being so calm and communicating with their children after experiencing the pressure and busyness of society. But no matter how busy you are, you still need to take out some things to accompany them every day and care about your child's heart. After the child feels loved, he will have more security, and the loved child will know how to love others and love himself.
Some good qualities come from the living environment, respect for others, love for others are the living environment can bring children education. The child is the mirror of the parents, he can truly reflect the appearance of the parents, and the examples made by the parents will be engraved in the hearts of the children. A warm environment can not only bring children closer to their parents, but also lay the foundation for their children's healthy growth in the future.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > strive to be a different version of yourself</h1>
In today's society, everyone pursues the same difference. If it becomes different from the public, it may be regarded as an outlier. But such a child will not have his own thoughts, his own judgments, and gradually become the walking dead of society. Parents should actively encourage their children to be a different version of themselves and not be afraid. When facing a problem, we must first think for ourselves and think independently, rather than listening to other people's opinions.
Tell them that all children are unique. They have their own unique talents, challenges and needs. As parents, our task is to be able to identify their special needs and provide assistance. Don't let the child lose the valuable thinking ability, not always have someone to make a choice for them, in the face of things, I hope that the child can think more calmly about the solution. Parents should not rush to answer for their children, provide help, and lend a helping hand when their children really can't think of countermeasures, and they can also hold debate competitions at home to encourage their children to express their ideas. Empathy with the child, better to help the child open his heart, when the child encounters troubles can better find the opportunity to communicate with the child, the child will not close their hearts.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > summary:</h1>
Parents want their children to become talented, and the biggest impact on children is education, abandoning the harsh ways of the past, and making friends with their children to get better communication. Educating children is not a simple thing, abandon the harsh way of the past, and change to a warm and loving form to make children feel love. Criticism only makes the child feel that his self-esteem has been hurt, but it has the opposite effect. By communicating and then analyzing the mistakes that children hear about gradually, they will be more receptive and effectively corrected. Help children create a better living environment, so that children can grow up more positively, understand that "love" and "be loved", is that they thrive in such a warm environment and can also be so warm to others.