Edit: Zhang Dacat
In our impression, the age of marriage between husband and wife should not be too different, and most of them are men older than women, in general, the eldest six or seven years old is already the limit, and it is more common to be within three years old.
Of course, the age difference is also a long-lost love, in daily life we can see, even among the stars, there are also some famous year-old love, such as the old drama bone Jin Shijie is a good example, his life experience is also lamentable.
<h1>From a big farmer to a famous actor</h1>
Jin Shijie was born in 1951 to an ordinary family in Taiwan, with four children, and he was the second oldest. In that era when he could eat enough and even if he was happy, Jin Shijie spent his childhood with only empty yards and simple houses.
However, he has achieved excellent results since he was a child, likes to make up stories, and the happiest thing every day is to crouch in the yard to watch the clouds, imagine the story, or look at the ants on the ground and imagine the plot.
After the college entrance examination, Jin Shijie respected the wishes of his parents, obtained the most popular animal husbandry major at that time, became a veterinarian, and started his pig breeding career.
However, as he grew older, he was tired of this boring and boring life, although the work at that time was an iron rice bowl, but Jin Shijie still wanted to make a breakthrough and do some things he liked. So he came to Taipei alone to study drama performance and wanted to become a drama actor.
I have to say that Jin Shijie's talent in acting is really not covered, although it is an irrelevant cross-border, he still succeeded.
In just two years, Jin Shijie became famous in Taiwan with his own "Lotus Pearl New Match", which was not only directly evaluated as "setting a wildfire in the deserted Taiwan theater", but also known as "the leader of the Taiwan small theater". He was 29 years old.
All these achievements did not make Jin Shijie lose his mind, but prompted him to continue to calm down and precipitate himself, jin Shijie knew that his foundation was still very weak. In this way, he began to reduce his performances and chose to study and polish himself, and after 10 years, Jin Shijie already knew more about acting.
In 1992, he was directly famous overseas for his "Crush on Peach Blossom Garden", not only in Taiwan, but also in asia at the age of 41.
<h1>The career is smooth sailing, but the relationship has encountered ups and downs</h1>
For many years, Jin Shijie had a girlfriend who accompanied him, and when he finally broke through some famous halls and wanted to give his lover a grand wedding, an accident happened.
When Jin Shijie was 45 years old, his first love girlfriend committed suicide due to depression. This accident caused him to completely collapse, and even gave up his drama career for a while.
Jin Shijie, who came out of the pain, decided to become an unmarried family, and also shifted the focus of his career to the direction of education, he came to Beijing University of Fine Arts and became a teacher.
Heaven seems to be unable to bear to let him be so alone, more than a decade after the death of his first love girlfriend, 56-year-old Jin Shijie met tu guping, a student. Her appearance once again opened Jin Shijie's heart, and the two soon fell in love, but their age difference was 25 years.
Such a relationship is not optimistic about everyone, and it has also triggered a lot of speculation and various voices from the outside world. But fortunately, Tu Guping's parents finally decided to support their daughter's idea. So a year later, the two got married.
Life after marriage is far better than others speculate, and the life of the two is very sweet. Three years later, Jin Shijie became a father of twins, and in order to give his children better living conditions, Jin Shijie appeared on the screen again and tried to make money.
This huge difference in year-old love, from the initial not optimistic, to now blessed, Jin Shijie and his wife with practical actions to show everyone their sincere love, wish them to be happy and complete.
<h1>What is the age difference between husband and wife? </h1>
Although Jin Shijie confirmed to us that true love does not need to consider age. But after all, this is a few individual cases, and for most ordinary people, it is still of no reference significance.
There are many drawbacks to the age difference being too large. As the folk saying goes, the "three-year-old generation gap" is obviously several generational gaps like Jin Shijie, but they have a common language and common cause, and the impact is not large, but it is obviously inappropriate for the general public.
If the age difference is too large, it is easy to have a situation where the three views are inconsistent, and once there is a dispute and disagreement, it is difficult to completely resolve, and over time it is also very unfavorable to the marriage.
If the age difference is too small or similar, it is actually not very appropriate. Two people of similar age, unless one party is very mature, so that whether it is life or work, can be more harmonious, otherwise two people are prone to contradictions due to immaturity, which is not good for both parties or future generations.
Studies have shown that the best age difference range is 3 to 5 years old, which refers to the fact that the man is 3 to 5 years older than the woman, so that the age difference couple lives a happier life and is more conducive to the growth of the child.
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Of course, the idea of the optimal age difference is just a suggestion, a general statement, and not an absolute. As long as the husband and wife truly love each other, the age difference is not a problem. The most important thing is that two people are in agreement.