The road of life is long, and the future is difficult to predict. However, the way forward is determined by oneself, although no one knows how far they will be able to go in the end. Using go as an example, it is like "no same game in the ages", even the alpha dog can not be exhausted, but the common layout is just dozens of types, there are many basic "stereotypes". As with Go, there is always something in your own hands, especially in the opening stages! Therefore, playing Go places special emphasis on "planning and then moving", "more to win, less to win". This is the secret of winning chess, but also the law of life. Therefore, people's life is like playing Go, first of all, there must be life planning!
Everyone has heard such a thing
Elementary school teacher: "If you don't study well, you won't be able to enter junior high school in the future."
Junior high school teacher: "If you don't study well, you won't be able to enter high school in the future."
High school teacher: "If you don't study well, you won't be able to go to college in the future."
University teacher: "If you don't study well, you won't be able to find a job in the future."
However, the boss asked, "Did you patronize your studies when you were in school?!"
Yin Qu
The education of our generation seems to be deeply affected by the traditional thinking and "teaching by example" of these parents and teachers, "reading changes fate" (for a while), "there is a golden house in the book" (there are so many people), "there is a beautiful jade in the book" (from the contradictions of various traffic stars are not school bullies, and school bullies are not allowed to fall in love with early love) Even if they regard their desire for laziness and entertainment in their minds as an "original sin" and deeply blame themselves, how many people are willing?
For example, some parents can't see their children playing, and the children are anxious to play outside for a while. In order not to cause contradictions, children have to continue to pretend to study after their homework is finished, and seize the time to play for a while when their parents are not at home. There are too many such families in life, and they see play as the antithesis of learning.
The famous football commentator Huang Jianxiang once said: "Children must have the ability to play, and at the same time have inner peace." Once a bully, he was completely different from most parents in his treatment of his daughter's studies. He doesn't ask his daughter to take the first exam, tells her that being first is not the most important, and that grades and happiness don't depend on whether she's first or not. This father who hopes that his children can have their own ideas, know how to play, and know how to grow up, and this guided free education for his daughter is really the greatest love for his daughter.
So in addition to making children happy and letting children grow up healthily, what is the value of playing? Children need to play, play is the child's spiritual food, and the nutrients provided by play are essential. In fact, play is a "staple food", is an important way for children to establish communication and interaction with the surrounding environment in the process of growing up, when the spirit is hungry (bored), the first time children spontaneously start a variety of games, rather than asking others for advice, looking for someone to teach themselves. The game is not the so-called "blind play", for example, the process of playing Go is also a process of independent learning, what is learned may not be realized at the time, but in the future it will definitely be chewed and recalled by us continuously.
Different eras of childhood have different ways to play, everyone has their own fun of the year, but also have different gains. It's not that children can't play, but how to play is meaningful, not just simply to kill time. So how does playing Go help children?
The first is the ability to plan and then move. Go emphasizes "more counts win, less counts win". That is to say, success requires effort, especially the use of the brain, the need to improve the time of concentration, which is undoubted to the development of intelligence.
Xu Jiaxiao
Second, playing Go is a kind of frustration education. The characteristic of Go is that each game of chess must be divided into wins and losses, and there is both the joy of success and the pain of failure. However, in order to achieve their goals, they must grow in defeat one by one, which is the so-called "repeated defeats, repeated defeats and repeated battles", perseverance and perseverance. Therefore, the master who plays Go is also called the "winner and loser". The tenacious soul is repeatedly pounded in the abyss of victory and defeat.
The third most overlooked enlightenment of Go is that It allows people to firmly follow their own path. When you sit in front of the chessboard, only you and your opponent are left in the world, and only one person can fight, and only one person can win. No amount of people who care for you can help you during this time, which is very similar to the life you will face in the future. Every unexpected problem in the game may be unique to your game, there is no precedent to be found, you have to rely on your own brains to decide in a limited time, and use your own methods to solve to defeat the opponent. From this point of view, it is like intellectual wilderness survival. Therefore, playing Go especially exercises children's ability to solve problems independently. When you can calmly play chess according to your own strategy on the chessboard, by extension, isn't this the simplest life plan?
"Certificate prodigy" Sun Yidong, 11 years old to win the award hanging all over the room, some time ago to participate in the "Strongest Brain", relying on agile thinking and introverted sexual grid fans countless. And he talked about his hobbies, one of which is playing Go.
Guangdong Jiangmen City Liberal Arts Champion Chen Junyan, from elementary school chess. Asked about the cheats of becoming a bully, he said that he was not the kind of child who held a book and read hard every day, and attributed the reason for learning well to learning chess. He said: "Playing chess can develop intelligence and promote the multiplicity of people to think and analyze problems in many aspects, which is of great help to achievements."
In addition, there is this year's Anhui Provincial Science Champion Wang Duchen, who insisted on playing chess for decades; Chen Yutian, a champion of the Taizhou Municipal College Entrance Examination, began to learn Go from an early age; Li Sicheng, a student of Peking University, has played chess at the age of 3 and a half and has never stopped........ The reason why the school bullies are so keen on Go is actually very simple: it is difficult to find a way to improve children's abilities in an all-round and large way like Go.
Go, can cultivate concentration.
A game of chess, as little as one or two hours, more than ten hours, fully engaged in the child's quiet down, in the chess game quiet thinking problems, have higher concentration. The time spent concentrating represents the level of intelligence, which is often referred to as "intelligence".
Go, can improve memory.
A chessboard has 361 intersection points, at least 100 hands are needed to complete the game, children need to clearly know the position of the pieces to be able to respond, Go also has dozens of openings, hundreds of stereotypes, deep understanding after hand to accurately apply, very intuitive exercise of children's memory ability.
Go can exercise logical thinking.
In the era of artificial intelligence, large companies such as Google use Go to verify artificial intelligence. This shows that Go can be an excellent exercise of people's logical thinking ability, And Go has become a bridge connecting the past and the future, opening the door to wisdom.
Go can improve emotional intelligence.
Falling is like sending out troops, and plundering land is like occupying a city. Every move, children need to carefully observe, compare, and analyze the chess game, which can cultivate logical thinking ability well. In the face of every unexpected crisis on the chessboard, children must calmly deal with it and resolve it secretly. It is necessary to have the power of strategizing, and it is even more necessary to have the winning and losing temperament of "Taishan collapsed in front and did not change color". A tough game of chess is like dancing on a cliff. Can't help but remind people of Sun Tzu's Art of War: "Its disease is like the wind, its Xu is like a forest, its aggression is like fire, and it is not moving like a mountain." ”
Chinese-style education has always been very controversial, with both pro and cons. It must be admitted that there will be a great contrast between school education and after entering society. What is this contrast? It's actually the ability to play! There is no need for us to hide ourselves on this issue.
Ma Yun said: "The achievements of future social people depend on the ability to play." In fact, this is a profound inevitability, with the development of the times, material needs have been solved, people have more spiritual, entertainment needs, this is not the ability to play? For example, the current cultural industry, game industry, movie animation, etc., isn't this all to meet the needs of human entertainment? What does the New Year's Eve party at Station B be so popular? It shows that everyone wants to entertain themselves, which is the right thing in life. After all, people always suffer from twenty years of cold windows, but there is no need to impose this on a lifetime, to become a lifetime curse. The ability to play represents the quality of life and should be brave enough to pursue.
And there's an unexpected point where the ability to play determines your social skills. Think about who are your friends? In addition to the same values, what is more important is not that everyone can talk about a piece, play to a piece. If everyone only cooperates at work, it can only be called a work partner, that is not called a friend, that is too boring. Therefore, a person who is versatile and humorous, will have many entertainment activities must be popular. When you make a new friend, you will first choose those who can accompany you to dinner, accompany you shopping, accompany you to sing, and accompany you to do sports. How many people will choose the kind that accompanies you to self-study, accompany you to the exam, accompany you to the accounting certificate?
From this point of view, the ability to play determines a person's ability to "expand the list", which is the greatest emotional intelligence.
Therefore, the ability to play determines a person's achievements in a lifetime; the way of play determines the quality of life of a lifetime. Independent learning and learning to play worthwhile is the way children need to grow up the most. And Go is a fun game that can exercise emotional intelligence and make you very advanced.
And the most important thing is: learning to play Go is the child's first life plan!