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Ten years of trees centennial tree people. The process of raising children is an extraordinary practice, and it is necessary to master enough knowledge and wisdom to make adults feel comfortable and let children grow up healthily on the road to parenting.
In fact, in the process of raising children, everyone must have this feeling: raising children, especially raising one-year-old babies, is really a very difficult thing.
Communication with one-year-old children, in addition to the language barrier, their capricious and strange behavior is even more puzzling: for example, they like to keep opening the door, closing the door, pressing the button; they like to take out all the clothes in the closet; they want to put everything in their mouths and taste it...
Sometimes, these children love to keep throwing things, and they must let their families cooperate with them to pick up things and let them throw them, and once they do not cooperate, they will cry and make people tired. They also love to tear down the building blocks that adults have worked so hard to help them build, and they will laugh at the messy building blocks; if the family does not cooperate with them, they will lose their temper and cry. When they are disobedient, they are like little devils, who can drive crazy their already busy parents.
If you also have a child in your family who is highly attached to his parents, loves to cry, and has high needs, and you are always mad at the child's emotions that are easy to get out of control, I recommend a book to break the siege for you. The title of the book is "Conforming to The Nature of children." In this book, the author elaborates on the various behaviors that can be used to help parents solve the above incomprehensible behaviors of their children through games.
My reasons for recommendation are mainly as follows:
I. Real and Vivid Examples "Conform to the Nature of Children" is a parent-child tutoring book. The author of this book, An Xiao, is a second-child mother who raises two children and has rich parenting experience. The process of raising two children has given the author a new understanding and understanding of the humanity of life, self and the world. The author records children's eccentric behaviors and impressive upbringing stories from their infancy. In this book, she lists many vivid and detailed examples of her two daughters' growth process, especially the many stories of the maddening Erbao, vividly revealing to everyone the importance of the parenting concept of "no persecution, no force, no pampering". These materials become a pop-up book: a complete display of children's rich inner world and growth laws, revealing children's nature and instincts. The author An Xiao has a profound artistic accomplishment, her writing is beautiful, clearly organized, well-chosen, rich in pictures and texts, and highly readable. These are inseparable from the author's life experience, academics and strengths. She is from Beijing, majoring in architecture, and studied at the University of the Arts London, where she obtained a master's degree in fine arts. She was a comic book author and later settled in London to become an animation director, where her work has been shown on British television and international video festivals, where she has won numerous awards. He is currently studying Child Psychology at the University of London. The stories and feelings she shares in this book are real and credible, and people feel empathetic. The methods she provides to help children control their emotions through play are also real and effective and worth learning.
Second, the advanced and unique concept of "Conform to the nature of children" This book has become a private parenting book for children who are deeply loved by British mothers.
Its main philosophy is: "Every child is gifted, you just have to go with the flow." "It is only by the logic of the child that the child can be seen." "As long as the child's internal driving force is opened from the three dimensions of curiosity, independent thinking, and self-expression, ordinary mothers can also raise excellent children." The main content of the book consists of three parts: First, see the nature, discover the child's talent. Let's read the way children perceive the world in the first place. Second, understand nature and empower children with a sense of security. Understand your child's emotions and behaviors from the perspective of emotional and rational development. Third, release nature and stimulate children's internal drive with creativity. It is the playfulness that children need most to help them find themselves satisfying their curious instincts. After reading this book, you will understand that you must use the child's perspective and mind to think about the problem, and then you will find that the children who seem to love unreasonable trouble are not actually deliberately opposing us.
Third, the inspiration that has benefited a lot
After reading this book, I benefited a lot. The first is to cherish the identity of being a participant in the growth of children. Because childhood experiences will become the background of a person's heart. The deepest feeling of childhood is the need to conform to the nature of children. As educators, we should try to create a bright background for children. A splendid childhood will not only illuminate the children, but also heal the participants who accompany the children growing up. Therefore, in the process of accompanying children to grow, we must do our best to do a good job in nurturing and guiding, so that our own souls can also be sublimated in the process of growing up with children. The children's growth story shared by the author makes us understand that after understanding children's emotions and behaviors, they can easily deal with their own emotions and behaviors. Trust and understanding will become a bridge between educators and children, and readers and their children will also establish a bridge of understanding and feel the positive transmission of love. Only by understanding the child can we find easier ways to guide and enter a more comfortable state of getting along. The interpretation of nature becomes the language of tacit understanding of the mind, the most valuable connection between us and our children. It will make your child's childhood more unhindered. And we, as participants, can enjoy the moving baptism from our children's childhood more thoroughly.
As the German educator Tistowe said: Differences in children's nature should be taken into account and unique development should be promoted. We cannot and should not make all people exactly the same and teach exactly the same things.
Therefore, we must adapt to and protect the nature of children, protect the creativity of children who belong to them. I believe that after reading the book "Conform to the Nature of Children", we will become more tolerant and wiser!
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