When you are ridiculed, how to fight back at others without offending people.
When people with high IQs are mentioned in the entertainment industry, what must come to mind is Huang Bo, who has always been synonymous with the high-quality chamber of commerce, and even so, it will also carelessly lose Jingzhou, because a sentence loses 3 million, what is going on?
Huang Bo
In the real society, a person who can talk will be liked by everyone, and the same is true in the entertainment industry.
When participating in the show, three junior singers came to his room, and when he saw them visiting him, he was very happy, picked up the fruit plate on the table, picked up the watermelon in the fruit plate with a toothpick, personally fed the three stars who visited him, and said casually: "Eat watermelon, I hope you are getting redder and redder, just like watermelon." ”
At this time, Lei Jiayin just walked into the room, saw this scene, and said to him playfully: "Give me a bite too." Only to see him pick up a purple grape and send it to Lei Jiayin's mouth.
Lei Jiayin asked, "What does this mean?" ”
"What are you all red?" It should be purple. ”
Lei Jiayin heard this and quickly said, "Give me a cyan one, I can't stand this purple." ”
From his approach, it can be summed up that no one will reject a humorous person, and when you can make people around you laugh, you will get their like and trust.
When others attack you in public, how to reply to others, which can save face and not offend people?
When he shared the stage with Zeng Zhiwei, he was ridiculed by him: "You let me know how embarrassing it is for an ugly face to sing in front of the screen." ”
He also did not deny Zeng Zhiwei's point of view: "You are right, the two of us together are mutual encouragement, when I was young, the dream was not to be an actor, and then I thought that Zeng Zhiwei could get the movie emperor, I can also, so I came, idols are very important to suitors, from childhood to like Andy Lau, grew up to become f4, from childhood to like you, grow up to become me." ”
From the dialogue between the two, it can be concluded that humor makes people feel comfortable while there is also a good friend around.
Huang Bo Zeng Zhiwei
Go with the flow and avoid embarrassment; humor is one way to resolve embarrassment, and the smartest way is to keep yourself from embarrassment.
When he boarded the plane at the airport, he suddenly felt a sharp slap on the shoulder, and he was startled to hear the person behind him say, "Hey, what are you going to do?" ”
He replied, "I'm going to Shanghai." ”
"Have you been busy lately?" I especially like you, I have watched many of your movies, especially the movie you acted in with Andy Lau, which also has Li Bingbing. ”
At this time, he was very confused, as if he had not cooperated with Andy Lau, which drama was it?
At this time, I heard the man say, "There is no thief in the world, I especially like you, let's take a picture!" ”
After the two finished the photo, it was not finished, let him sign, he was very embarrassed, in the end is to sign Huang Bo? Or sign Wang Baoqiang? Later, I finally decided to write three words about Wang Baoqiang on the photo.
It can be seen from this matter that high emotional intelligence will not embarrass others, nor will it embarrass yourself.
No matter how high the emotional intelligence of the person, there are times when there are mistakes, but he lost 3 million because of a sentence.
He and Xu Zheng participated in a charity auction, auctioned a five-carat diamond ring on the spot, the starting price was 800,000 yuan, in order to raise more charity funds for the charity, the people present began to shout the price, you said I shouted the price all the time, he has been following the price until 2.5 million yuan and did not get the ring, Huayi boss Wang Zhongjun shouted to 2.8 million yuan, at this time, he said a sentence: "In fact, today I am a guest of the auction, that is, the bait that is released." ”
His words pointed out that Wang Zhongjun was wronged, the scene was very embarrassing, at this time Xu Zheng raised a sign and shouted 3 million, and finally gave the ring to Wang Zhongjun.
At this time, he realized that he had said the wrong thing: "Diamonds are precious, this love is more precious than diamonds, and I hope that these donations can help more people." ”
Even if you speak humorously, you must divide into occasions, because a sentence may change a person's life, not because society is too realistic, but because others do not understand you.
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