Before entering the Qin Palace, the relationship between the two sisters Mi Yue and Mi Shu looked intimate on the surface, like glue, but as soon as they entered the Qin Palace, the relationship between Mi Yue and Mi Shu quickly cooled down.
Especially Mi Yue, she gradually put away the appearance of flattery and courtesy in the past.
After the conflict with Mi Shu, she no longer wanted to quickly explain it clearly, but slowly learned to have a cold war with Mi Shu, if Mi Shu was angry with her and did not want to listen to her, Mi Yue would no longer take care of Mi Shu, but turned to Wei Liang and Fan Chang and made friends.
So the question is, why did Mi Yue stay away from Mi Shu as soon as she entered the Qin Palace? Is it more and more cold to Mi Shu?
To answer this question, it is necessary to talk about the reason why Mi Yue and Mi Shu are good friends.
The reason why Mi Shu was kind to Mi Yue's sister was, on the one hand, because in the Chu Kingdom, Mi Shu was a princess, and Mi Yue was a princess, and in front of Mi Yue, Mi Shu could gain a sense of superiority.
On the other hand, Mi Shu is good to Mi Yue, but also to satisfy her own condescending pleasure in giving alms to others.
Just like Song Siming in "Snail Residence", why is he good for seaweed?
Part of the reason is because Song Siming has no sense of existence in front of his wife and cannot get his wife's admiration for him, and the man who has reached this position has everything in his name, and he needs a person to share his success.
And seaweed just needs real material and power, so Song Siming uses her to satisfy the pleasure and superiority of her condescending charity.
In the same way, Mi Shu is good to Mi Yue, nothing more than to show her princess's sense of superiority in front of Mi Yue.
Mi Shu's kind of thinking, in fact, is very much like many self-made big bosses, hard work for half a lifetime, and finally mixed up a look, the most eager is not to show their achievements in front of the vulnerable groups that once belittled or denigrated themselves, to satisfy their vanity.
There is no doubt that compared with Mi Shu, at that time, Mi Yue was not as good as Mi Shu in the Chu Kingdom, and it can be said that she was a "weak person, Mi Shu as the strong side is good to Mi Yue, psychologically, can get the pleasure of condescending charity."
And Mi Shu's psychology, Mi Yue is not unaware, so when she was in the Chu Palace, Mi Yue always covered up her sharp edge in front of Mi Shu, deliberately did not steal Mi Shu's limelight, and showed weakness in front of Mi Shu, the purpose was to get Mi Shu's sympathy and pity, so as to use Mi Shu to help her resist the persecution of Wei Hou.
It can be said that the relationship between the two sisters was not pure at the beginning, and each made friends for their own interests.
A relationship that is only made because of interests, once it encounters a collision of interests in the future, can it tear up its face?
This was also the reason why Mi Yue was cold to Mi Shu after entering the Qin Palace.
First of all, it is because of the competition in resources between the two people, the resulting interest dispute, resulting in the breakdown of the relationship.
The so-called competition for resources refers to the favor of the king and the honor of heirs.
Princess Mi Shu's possessiveness and self-esteem made her accustomed to having the upper hand, and everywhere she wanted to suppress Mi Yue, however, the time shifted easily, and it happened that the King of Qin liked Mi Yue, so in the area of resources, it was relatively biased towards Mi Yue, Mi Shu had always been on top of mi yue when she was in the Chu kingdom, and she was condescending to Mi Yue, and she was fiercely letting her bow to this former "weak person", and Mi Shu was of course unwilling.
In addition, Mi Shu privately believes that Mi Yue stole the top resource allocation that belonged to her, so slowly mi yue turned from jealousy to resentment, and Mi Yue can definitely feel Mi Shu's hostility towards herself.
However, the fact that the King of Qin liked Mi Yue was not something that Mi Yue could decide, and after entering the Qin Palace, although Mi Yue had always wanted to stay away from right and wrong, she had to find her, and finally forced her to choose a path that she was reluctant to take.
Mi Yue's helplessness and compulsion, even if it is said to Mi Shu, Mi Shu will not fully understand her, will still have resentment towards her, and slowly Mi Yue will not bother to explain to Mi Shu again, and can only try to be as safe as possible twice.
Secondly, mi yue originally made friends with Mi Shu, originally in order to use Mi Shu to help her escape the persecution of Chu Wei, after coming to the Qin Palace, chu Wei Hou this enemy can no longer bring her a threat, so Mi Yue can naturally live much easier, and no longer need to blindly please Mi Shu as in the past.
In the past, although Mi Yue and Mi Shu had a good relationship, this superficial harmony was deliberately created by Mi Yue suppressing her true personality and thoughts.
Mi Yue grinds away her edges and corners to cater to Mi Shu, entirely because of the need for survival, but this inferior relationship does not mean that she is approved in her heart.
Later, after the Qin state was freed from the control of Wei Hou, Mi Yue naturally hoped to be able to get along with Mi Shu in an equal posture.
The so-called equal relationship is that you are good to me, I am good to you, if you throw your face at me, sorry, I will not blindly please you.
This change of thinking and relations, after the Qin State, the change was obvious.
We can see that since Mi Yue entered the Qin Palace, when she changed the past Chu State, she was cautious and reserved in front of Mi Shu, and slowly showed the bravado and liveliness that belonged to her nature.
In addition, after Mi Yue entered the Qin Palace, she was cold to Mi Shu, mainly because the two people were different and did not conspire.
In the past, she only had a choice because she had no choice and needed to use Mi Shu to protect her personal safety, but after arriving at the Qin Palace, Mi Yue was already free, and she had the right to choose friends who were more in line with her interests and values.
For example, Meng Ying, Meng Ying and Mi Yue have no entanglement of interests, and both of them are cheerful people, and they have common interests in riding horses, so, compared to Mi Shu, Meng Ying and Mi Yue are undoubtedly more suitable to become close friends.
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The sisterhood between Mi Yue and Mi Shu can be said to be full of enmity and entanglement between the mothers at the beginning, coupled with the fact that they later served the same husband, also had sons, and faced the same and limited resources, doomed to be unable to fellowship and could not reach a state of unguardedness.
It can only be said that each other is false and true, and there is truth in truth.
So, let's talk about a detail, after Wei Hou's death, why did the relationship between Mi Shu and Mi Yue instantly drop to the freezing point?
It is nothing more than that the mother's grudge has always been hidden in the hearts of two people, although both sides have done their best to escape, but what is engraved in the bones only needs one opportunity to detonate.
And Wei Hou's death is to directly provoke the contradiction under the sun, the hidden complaints of both sides, nakedly exposed, and each other is unwilling to pretend anymore, and the natural relationship is becoming more and more rigid.
It can only be said that all the divisions were never sudden, but laid the groundwork at the very beginning.
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