Today is destined to be another sleepless night, the mother's infinite nagging, the father's no question, let the little one sleepless in the middle of the night again. Why is the originally happy family of five facing fragmentation today?
Little their family lives in a remote rural area, small has an older brother and a younger brother, before their junior high school life is very happy, although not very rich, but the parents are as far as possible to meet their requirements, the little three sisters are very sensible, very small is to know how to help their parents do housework, parents come home from work with the little ones to watch TV, go out for a walk together, chat together, such a small day is very comfortable. Under the pressure of the family, the little parents are ready to go to the city to work, in order to give the children a better education, the little parents took them to the city after a year, everything is developing in a good direction.
One day, the little father and his friend into the shares to open a factory, the business is ok, can earn about a thousand yuan a day, the little people's lives also began to improve, they also bought land in the city, built a house, but who knows, because the management is more severe, so the loss of 400,000. That day, The little one saw his father cry for the first time, that is, that time the little father was like a changed person. There was no more laughter in the house, only constant quarrels.
The father drank heavily every day and ignored the family, and the mother chattered in front of the father. One day, the little father couldn't stand the nagging of the little mother, and finally chose to move out and live alone. However, this kind of practice made the little mother think that he had someone outside, and his mood was even more unstable. The small see is also very disturbing, the business in the factory behind is getting worse and worse, and the lease contract signed is about to expire, and the factory can only be shut down.
That year, xiao xiao was a freshman, her parents finally divorced, xiao xiao lived with her mother, maybe her mother always instilled some negative thoughts with her, and xiao Xiao couldn't stand it, simply ignoring what her mother said. Who knows currently facing the small novel: "You have a virtue with your father".
This sentence undoubtedly stimulated the little heart, and the world at that moment was black.
Every family has a difficult recitation, the ease and sadness of life, just depends on how you look at it, you see the good side, the bad side will be ignored, you see only the bad, then no matter how good it is, it will be buried.
There is an effect in psychology called the "over-limit effect", that is, we often say that things must be reversed, once or twice does not matter, but the number of times, will make people bored. I think you've had that experience too. Therefore, we must learn to stop at the right time, not always go through the old accounts, the past things, we must learn to let go.
If you are a small child, how do you deal with such a situation?